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When i was teenager, I used to look depressed because i was depressed, a guy came and showed me care because i was depressed just to betray me later.

He had no intentions of dating me but he pretended like he was interested, he even bullied and mean to me for fun because i looked weak. When i told people around, they told me why am i making a big deal out it and i am being over-sensitive. and that what he did is nothing wrong.

I think they took his side even when he is bad because he is popular and smart. I am not.

I hate this world, i hate everyone, i hate men, i will never trust or love men !
Gibbon · 70-79, M
Many of us are often told to follow our own advice.

From your profile
I only want to talk about positives in life even if they look like less. I am not here to date

You can back away from the negativity in your post. Generalizing people removes the uniqueness of individuals.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@Gibbon i too think maybe i was around bad people in wrong places, that's why they were like that
Gibbon · 70-79, M
@sahi81 There you go. You have every reason to keep your guard up and be cautious with everyone you meet. But when someone you meet and feel is genuine take it slow. Good relationships aren't forced they just find their own way of happening.
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Bleak · 36-40, F
Why always all men????
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@Bleak i wrote about women too few times lol... but most r men
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sahi81 · 22-25, F
@SStarfish yes, i believe it's better to know someone's background and what type of person they are before allowing them to date or have a relationship with us. I think self-love is important and also communication/social skills and confidence. I think i allowed him in my life because i wasn't confident in myself to meet new people and have relationship. Felt like he was only option at that time...

Ignore them, they r probably SIMPS! Had seen people in my life who make excuses for women like they are innocent just because they r "women".

Yes, some people generally take sides without thinking.
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IamBack · 31-35, M
@sahi81 like you said most, not all 🤷🏻‍♂

Sorry you’re having bad experiences though
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@IamBack problem is, due to most, i have to be on guard and not able to trust good ones too
IamBack · 31-35, M
@sahi81 I fully understand 😔

 
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