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Men around me and men I come across are all bad.

They make me lose hope in good men. They make me feel dumb, worthless, useless, etc and also cause problems in my life. Men can't see me grow or happy just bcuz I am women. Men try to suppress me, pull me down, cause problems in my life just to put me one step behind them in everything i do just bcuz i am an woman. I hate men and I hate this world.

Even decent/normal men act so egoistic and self-important that they don't mind hurting anyone they perceive as lower than them to get their way.

No good man came in my life till now, idk why. I'm scared to interact with men again after getting hurt by many men in my life. I feel like good man is just an illusion. All i only wanted was a good man, but I never found any till now.

I'm hoping to come across only good men in future by trying new and different things though it's very hard for me to stay positive in all this negativity. I am trying to avoid negative men around me... I hate them all . I hope they get their karma !
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MarkPaul · 26-30, M
Stop being a victim... and enjoying it.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@MarkPaul u stop being emotionally unavailable
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@MarkPaul it's hard to stay positive... U have no idea how negative i feel...
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MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@sahi81 I'm very emotionally available. I'm just trying to help. Don't you see that?
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@sahi81 Look... I understand how negativity can tend to overrule everything. The trick is not to "give" it that power. Instead of blaming everyone... or all men... for how you feel put down and put behind, we need to build yourself up. And, that isn't going to come from pity, sympathy, coddling, and buying into the drama of the situation. What are you hoping to accomplish? Be honest.
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sahi81 · 22-25, F
@MarkPaul I was blaming men for causing problems in my life just to put me one step behind them in everything i do in my life. They try to drag me down.... I am not blaming men for "how I feel put down", I am blaming men for "putting me down !".

It's hard to stay positive in this crap.... I think I need positive men... I want to be surrounded by positivity...

It's so unrewarding to build myself for men who most around me r not even good.... I think just need positive role models of men first....
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@NativePortlander1970 I'm working here, dude.
@MarkPaul Oh, has she become a project of some sort, a planned conquest?
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@MarkPaul I feel so much tension about finding a good man in future... I feel very negative 😞 I want reassurance that good men exists even if I can't see them now
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@sahi81 Well, I'm the ultimate gentleman and I'm sophisticated... and I'm super-positive.
@sahi81
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@NativePortlander1970 Well, I wouldn't put it that way... I mean, that's so crass. I'm sophisticated.
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sahi81 · 22-25, F
@MarkPaul i don't trust ur words, i trust ur actions. U don't sound positive. u sound toxic and prideful. Stop watching those alpha male podcasts 😆
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@NativePortlander1970 I'm the true alpha male.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@sahi81 I'm down-to-earth and humble. I mean, sure I'm a little shy, but with a little patience I warm up. And, I am a gentleman.
@MarkPaul Guess what Cletus, those words usually scare women off because it's usually the psychopaths that say them.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@NativePortlander1970 Listen, Scooter... I'm not a psychopath and I'm not a serial killer.
@MarkPaul Sure, uh huh, ok, whatever you say.