I Lack Faith In Humanity

I have lost so many people who I thought were my true friends this year. It turns out they are just self-centred, selfish and arrogant.
I find it so difficult to keep telling myself that I am not the one with the problem, when my boyfriend, bestfriend and a couple other 'friends' let me down and shat on my head.
The man who I thought was the love of my life made moves on me 2 days ago, yet tells me today that he doesn't want anything to do with me?! He used me to his advantage.
I keep getting my heart broken and the pain is unbearable

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TheGoodGuy · M

If someone is the type of person to use another then you are seriously better of without them. Someone like that would is not worth getting down for. People are like an addiction when it comes to love, and the heartbreak will get better, given time. There are a lot of beautiful people in this world, don't lose faith just because of a few bad ones, keep an eye out for the good ones...

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deenaljc · F

@TheGoodGuy I have difficulties with accepting things like this

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Silverwings · 61-69, F

@deenaljc This is unfortunate, but all to common. I urge you to get some counseling, so that your life is not controlled by what happened. Read and study on trust, and boundaries, I think it will be time and money well spent.

AngelKrish · 26-30, M

I also got broken so deep that 1 years complete it took me to start again...but I also got brain washed by that too..
I will never back down...and I will never let you stay down too.. because I will pull you up with me to positive sunshine of life !

deenaljc · F

Sorry to hear that. I admire your positivity! @AngelKrish

Thingschange4444 · 51-55, M

Yes i lost mine in humanity through similar reasons. (Lifes sh.theads) but there are good people who will restore that faith hopefully.

deenaljc · F

@Thingschange4444 All my experiences have damaged my trust. I feel as though I now expect people to treat me badly, which is awful as someone could genuinely be good to me and I'll push them away. I'm scared of being hurt time and time again

Thingschange4444 · 51-55, M

@deenaljc I uderstand. Its a horrible feeling and i hope u get through it one day and regain trust in someone who deserves it and would never hurt you. Good luck.

deenaljc · F

@Thingschange4444 thank you! Best wishes to you

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deenaljc · F

@shyuncut4u that's kind of you, thank you. Best wishes for the new year!

SomeLikeItHot ·

It is difficult to love someone that wants all the power in the relationship.

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SomeLikeItHot ·

@deenaljc I was there with my first girlfriend. I allowed her to control the relationship so I do feel for what you are going through. We had a relationship when I was 19, 21 and 26. She found me the last time but I determined that I would control the relationship for the last time and get closure. If you ever go back to him or he tracks you down do not let him control your heart because you are being exploited. You will need to make decisions with your mind and not your heart and know that you must end it without hurting him or yourself. That was my experience. FYI she was 3 years younger than myself.

deenaljc · F

@SomeLikeItHot I don't think he'll ever want me. He told me he doesn't love me, and that he wants nothing to do with me after seducing me?! He also said that he's now seeing someone else, so he really just used me to his own advantage because he feels as though he can click his fingers when he wants. He said that I was just a "temptation". I feel so used and embarassed

SomeLikeItHot ·

@deenaljc Please know he is not done.
Resolve now not to be used again and make a plan when he comes back.

Uncfred · 61-69, M

Honey, friendship comes before love in a lasting relationship, but then who am I (a divorcee) to talk.

KnightRanger · 56-60, M

😥 I am so sorry!

deenaljc · F

@KnightRanger so am I 😞

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