Would you say happy birthday to some one you wished would treat you better??

-but they still played a significant role in your life regardless of how they treated you

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I do it all the time. Saying happy birthday or signing the birthday card is just polite. And how can I expect someone to treat me better if I start treating them crappy?

Though sometimes you just got to remove them from your interactions as much as possible to preserve your sanity because they will never change