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NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
It’s really hard. It took me years for some of them. And sometimes cutting off contact isn’t the answer - although doing it at first for a year or so might be a good idea. One time I reconnected with a lover I still loved after about 2 years - we talked a lot via text. I even went to see him a couple of times. After a while I didn’t feel the need to keep contact. It brought me closure and I moved on emotionally. Without reconnecting though, I’d prob still be crying in my soup.
