Do you ever think about your death?
I know, there's so much living to do, but in contrast to when we are born, where we are only known to God, at the end of life there is a hope that we have encountered many people, and our family and friends will settle on us a reputation for how we showed our common humanity to others, whether we were good people, a good person to know, or someone by who's death there is a relief to others. Which kind of reputation would suit you best?