It's astounding how someone could throw away four years...

@familyfunguy far and few in between. A lot of it was just playing lie detector.

@RedGrizzly But we had good times. It's just I had uprooted my life from a great career, ended up homeless, got repossessed, got on my feet for a time, been cheated on three times, and still thought she could change because she had shown me some progress....but then she reverted backwards.

@RedGrizzly I spent 4 years with a man who didn’t work, spent my money like I had an endless supply of it and ended up bankrupt when we finally split. We had an open relationship, even though I never took advantage of it and never engaged with another man, he saw other women frequently. After we split he tried to get me back telling me I was the best of any of them but I refused by then I saw the real person and didn’t want anything to do with him even though we had a child together. He was free to see her anytime he wanted but only did on rare occasions. I tell you this so you will understand that relationships are about learning about the person accepting them as they are or move on. You can’t be in a relationship and hope they will change. People only change when they want to and if they do it for someone else it will never stick. Use every situation as a learning experience. Take note of the warning flags that you ignored, find out why you were so willing to ignore them. Mourn for the end of what you had hoped for then look forward with your new knowledge and take the risk again. Find someone who is worthy of your love and devotion, not someone you hope will finally see you but someone who sees you now. And someone who is grateful for every day they have with you. It won’t be easy but it will be worth it. ❤️