No means no.
I never understood why people get so defensive when you tell them no. Or they get upset when you finally snap after telling them no so many times. In my experience it’s mainly the men here who like just cannot accept no. They ask to chat with me, I view their profile and if something seems off or u find something I don’t like; then I say no. Even after the fact I say no they’ll say ok, then wait literal days/weeks or months, and decide to ask again.
Recently this guy I said No to over a year ago, asked me again. His words were “are you willing to talk with people my age now?” This guy is like 50, im in my early 20’s. Hell no.
I told him that it’s creepy he waited an entire year just to ask again, and I told him it made me uncomfortable. He then goes on about how it’s not creepy because we’re both adults; and his “class mate married a man who was 12 years older right after graduating”
Let me just say If a girl says no. Always assume that she means it. Dont wait around just to ask her again days, weeks, months, or even years later.
Recently this guy I said No to over a year ago, asked me again. His words were “are you willing to talk with people my age now?” This guy is like 50, im in my early 20’s. Hell no.
I told him that it’s creepy he waited an entire year just to ask again, and I told him it made me uncomfortable. He then goes on about how it’s not creepy because we’re both adults; and his “class mate married a man who was 12 years older right after graduating”
Let me just say If a girl says no. Always assume that she means it. Dont wait around just to ask her again days, weeks, months, or even years later.
