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LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
Absolutely not. In fact, those things aren't necessarily even kind. I'll flatter and compliment someone who has something I want. Kindness requires you to consider what would make the other person happy. And beyond just happy, because happiness is temporary. One must consider the basic needs, and then the next tier of needs, in order to build others up. That is kindness.