I think we all have our ups and downs. I use to get super attached way to early because I got excited too, but the older I got the more I learned to enjoy my own company and keep a bit of mystery about myself. Instead of being to informative, I ask them questions and listen. I don't divulge too much too soon. I don't offer information either, I let them pick my brain on their terms. I have a lot of hobbies and do my own thing a lot of times. People are more drawn to me because I take it slow and let things develop naturally. I also exercise regularly and try to eat healthy. I also prefer quality over quantity. I hope my 20 cents helped.

You are who you are, you're not meant to be alone, but companionship takes many forms. I wouldn't say give up on what you're looking for, I say widen the scope, you may yet be pleasantly surprised by what life has in store for you.