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Why lust/sex is considered bad by society?

Especially religions, traditions and culture !
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GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
From a religious point of view,its because its concidered giving into your earthly desires. It separates you from being in tune with spirit and keeps you focused on a linear materialistc mind set. Hence why alot of people are addicted to money and reject thier family if they have too much or kill themselves when they have none. Those are extreme examples obviously.

From a traditional prospective it destroys the family dynamic. Your less inclined to have children because your chasing the feeling rather than the purpose of procreation or end up with children when your not ready. Both of these dictate how the next generation will be.

As you can see, we have become more and more fucked up every generation because of our addiction to material and feelings.
sahi81 · 26-30, F
@GuyWithOpinions I have seen people acting bad and hurting each other when they couldn't get what they want "sex" or "romance/date/love" from people they are attarcted to ! Even hurting or abandoning family and even their pets for sex and love !

I myself had many negative experiences with men when i said "no" to them !

It's like sex increases violence and jealousy !
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
@sahi81 it just becomes an addiction to some. Like any other thing.

If you ran out of money or someone stole from you, you might be inclined to steal yourself. Not because your a thief but because we are born into a society that cant support life without money.

We dont choose food because we are hungry, we eat because it tastes good regaurdless of what chemicals it took to get like that. Then when you eat a something like a bland potatoes, its not good enough. You crave more. More costs money. Money requires work. Work requires you to slave over someone elses vision just to eat and survive while the leader or business owner doesnt even worry about those things because they have all of us working for them.
sahi81 · 26-30, F
@GuyWithOpinions do u think sex , romance, partner, family, kids, etc, are those important even when they are not necessary for survival. I believe people give too much importance to those even when they are not necessary to survive.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
@sahi81 of course. But its how you go about it.

Its natural for a man to be attracted to a woman but are you going to win her respect and create love? Or take it by force and create fear. Could you go without it or crave it no matter the cost?
sahi81 · 26-30, F
@GuyWithOpinions can we talk in private if you don't mind?
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
@sahi81 sure.