Do you speak your mind out

If they're insisting on an honest answer, yes I'll give it..but my people pleasing trait typically takes over so much so that I never ever offend someone. I just read recently people pleasing is a trauma response and I fully agree . If I ever disagreed growing up, I was screamed at, mocked, threatened. This was DAILY too, if you asked the wrong question, put a cup down the wrong way. It was a nightmare. So it's VERY hard for me to not first try to make sure someone is happy at any cost. And that cost has been for me to never be Myself 😧