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Tired of being alone, afraid of not being alone

I've come to the realization that I'm going to be alone for a long time, if not forever and I have to accept it. I want a relationship, I want to be happy, I crave affection, love and human touch... I want to be around people who understand, or at least truly accepts me for who I am. It's not that I'm antisocial, it's just hard to connect, because people talk, but they have nothing to say.
Mikyel · 36-40, M
You may not believe me, but that sounds like myself at your age. I still feel that way because I just turned 40, yet I'm still alone too.

"People talk but have nothing to say "

IMO, this is the truest truth 😳

I seriously understand your words, cuz when you have been through it, you can empathize.

You're not alone feeling this way.
Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@LickOrRice Since you are a young woman you will probably have to go through at least a dozen guys before you are ready for a long-term relationship such as a marriage. Take precautions and don't get pregnant.

The average number of sexual partners
"There's a lot of research on lifetime sexual partners, and any given study will give you slightly different numbers. But in general, anywhere between 4 and 8 partners is considered an average number of sexual partners for adult men and women.Mar 13, 2023"

"Just to throw a curveball here: A 2018 survey from NectarSleep found men reported having an average of 26 sexual partners before "settling down"; for women, the average was 19 sexual partners."
https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/the-ideal-number-of-sexual-partners-for-men-women#:~:text=The%20average%20number%20of%20sexual%20partners,-It%20varies%20a&text=There%27s%20a%20lot%20of%20research,for%20adult%20men%20and%20women.
Ynotisay · M
OK. But in all reality, at 18-21 just how long have you been alone? Your call but I might slow my roll with the 'forever' thing at this stage in your life. You've got a little ways to go. Don't want to create realities that aren't based in reality.
Ynotisay · M
@LickOrRice OK. But just to toss one more little nugget out there that you might want to consider.
"Thoughts become things." That's true.
Think bad thoughts and bad things happen. Reverse it and the outcome will be different.That's how it works. Not always and not immediately. But it WILL. For sure. Good luck.
LickOrRice · 18-21, FNew
@Ynotisay True. Thanks for the optimism, I'll take your words to heart and try thinking more positively.
Ynotisay · M
@LickOrRice Really glad to hear that. You've got this. 👍
Tracos · 51-55, M
There people who would love you just for that
ABCDEF7 · M
Humans are in habit of living in groups and couples from 30 million years.

 
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