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I personally believe transgender men are taking rights away from women

Rights as in our rights to have women sports, women bathrooms, little known fact, we already have a class of sports that totally accepts anyone, it's been falsely identified as the " men's League " but in all reality it's the world's league, if I was skilled enough in chess I could go for the world title against Magnus Carlson, why don't they just stick to where the true equality is? Instead of going to the women's league and breaking all the world records that true born women have strived their whole lives to accomplish
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It's a complicated issue. When it comes to bathrooms it's easy to say, use the bathroom that aligns with the sex you were assigned at birth... but what if you're a fully transitioned and expressing male to female transgender woman that passes 100% as a woman? Would you want that person to use the men's bathroom?

Sports is another issue, and again it's complicated. Everyone wants fairness in sports. I would say sports by their very nature are unfair. People are born with certain biological advantages over other people..height, strength, speed, intelligence. Of course there's tons of training involved but the person with the best training AND the biological advantages will usually come out ahead. Then if you throw performance enhancing drugs into the mix that also skews everything. Maybe they can make the rules that in order to participate in women's sports as a transgender woman you have to be fully transitioned for a certain number of years and have the testosterone levels and estrogen levels of an average woman. But that doesn't take away the advantage of the male frame. So yes it doesn't seem fair if a male athlete, so someone who already probably is above average in a lot of biological qualities that make them good at sports...transitions well into adulthood, and then competes with women in sports like powerlifting, swimming or MMA where they can dominate.

Do we limit the type of sports transgender women can compete in? Make separate leagues for transgender athletes? I don't have a good answer but I think we should at least try to find a solution that doesn't make female athletes feel like the game is rigged but also doesn't make transgender athletes feel excluded or marginalized.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
@MrBlueGuy Why are they not called women?
SarahAndSamantha · 51-55, T
@MrBlueGuy Nex Benedict was using the bathroom they were 'supposed' to and got assaulted. Cobalt Soverein was in the one she was 'supposed' to be in, and got a broken jaw for her troubles. Same with Noah Ruiz, except he not only got assaulted, but arrested.

So yeah, they do want us to use 'correct' bathroom, regardless. they just don't give a flying....fish....about OUR safety.
@MrBlueGuy I rocked up in the packed ladies room as a teenager. I was dressed as a guy.

I guess that I passed well enough that day because women were dragging their children away from me - until I removed my cap and shook my long hair loose.

If I'd known that I passed that well that day, I'd have used a more private toilet facility than that one.

Sometimes, it's not just about our safety... but it can also be that we don't want you worrying about your children when we're just there for the same reason as you are.
@HootyTheNightOwl The children thing I don't quite get either. Anyone could be a danger to children.. I wouldn't be sending a child unattended into a public washroom whether it was trans friendly or not.
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