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Something of an 'Am I The A-hole?' question

Many of the stores in the area have cut back on their handicap accessible parking spaces and replaced them with Curbside Pickup, Fast Pickup, or Delivery service parking.

This has caused a situation where it is super difficult for me to park in a space with the room I need to get my wheelchair in and out of my vehicle. However, the pickup spots are almost always next to the handicap hash area for extra space. So I have begun using those spaces when handicap is full.

It seems like bad etiquette, but it also feels wrong that these spots mostly used by grocery delivery services have eaten away at the very necessary and already limited accessible spaces. I do have a placard and I only use them when there are no handicap reserve spaces free.

Does this seem like I'm in the wrong? Or is the situation somewhat justified?

Additional note, some of these places have sloped parking lots, so parking at the far end and hoping nobody parks next to me and doesn't give me space is not the only risk. Taking a wheelchair up even a slight incline over a long distance is rough.
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Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Is this a business thing ?
Is the store making a charge for use of this provision ?
If yes then I think it's not unreasonable to ask where disabled customers can get their cut. Since its [i]them[/i] inconvenienced by this business decision.

Alternatively ask the company if they have any statistics on the number of customers now shopping elsewhere because they are being discriminated against as a result of their revised parking arrangements.
@Picklebobble2 It's pretty much everywhere now that has pick and pull online ordering.
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
@NativePortlander1970 So it's a business decision.
One that inconveniences and discriminates.

Worth making a fuss about.
@Picklebobble2 Yep, something that started before the pandemic was even a thing, but grew hugely during it.
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
@NativePortlander1970 Yes this is because business will do anything (logical or sensible be damned) to cater to 'hit and run' busy able bodied customers.

Thus it directly discriminates against those with disabilities.

Thoughtless action is still prosecutable i would have thought.
If you make enough fuss.
@Picklebobble2 All because of the aviator Charles Lindburghs hatred of his own son, who was disabled, and framed Bruno Hauptmann for his "kidnapping" and death. Lindburgh was Margaret Sanger's partner that started the Eugenics Society, which eventually created Planned Parenthood.