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Something of an 'Am I The A-hole?' question

Many of the stores in the area have cut back on their handicap accessible parking spaces and replaced them with Curbside Pickup, Fast Pickup, or Delivery service parking.

This has caused a situation where it is super difficult for me to park in a space with the room I need to get my wheelchair in and out of my vehicle. However, the pickup spots are almost always next to the handicap hash area for extra space. So I have begun using those spaces when handicap is full.

It seems like bad etiquette, but it also feels wrong that these spots mostly used by grocery delivery services have eaten away at the very necessary and already limited accessible spaces. I do have a placard and I only use them when there are no handicap reserve spaces free.

Does this seem like I'm in the wrong? Or is the situation somewhat justified?

Additional note, some of these places have sloped parking lots, so parking at the far end and hoping nobody parks next to me and doesn't give me space is not the only risk. Taking a wheelchair up even a slight incline over a long distance is rough.
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Do what You have to fellow disabled, I am a terminal cardiopulmonary patient on assisted oxygen 24/7 myself and I also bristle at how our spaces have dwindled, a local store has also designated the prime spot for law enforcement/first responders, not for official use, but as general parking for shopping, I have lost track of how many cops, fire fighters, and ambulance crews, have come out with bags of groceries.
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
@NativePortlander1970 I've seen spots like that too. There's a target near me with one. But that particular store actually has ample handicap spaces (at least for the moment). It's extra frustrating when it happens to places that are already short on spots.
@ViciDraco The interesting thing is that all of the store pickup spots are always empty
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
@NativePortlander1970 the only time I see people using them these days are people that are very definitely not doing store pickup. Almost always empty, or the same empty car that was there on my way in will still be there on my way out.
@ViciDraco They need to redesignate them to handicap