A vital message to men.

Especially, the ones who say that they are tired of how a lot of women are acting these days.

As a man, you do not have any other option but to be with a woman. Homosexualities or other things aren't sustainable. Someone gave a good example. If there is only men and other genders except women in a remote island, in the probable future, there is no offspring and everyone dies. On the other hand, if there is men and women, in the probable future, there are newborns and the society grows.

However women are these days, it is what it is. The best you can do as a man, is to do your best. Surely a lot of things are unacceptable and we know too much isn't good, so keep that in mind too. Remember, you too make mistakes.

I hope this helps someone.

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Straylight · 31-35, F

If all gay men and women are sent to the island, then the kids from straight island who grow up to be LGBTQ will continue the population there. The statistical range varies, but it’s like 6%. Possibly more than that if some of the people polled were lying about being straight.

You say it’s a good example, but as an analogy it really isn’t.

Riemann · 31-35, M

@Straylight You missed the point of the example. There is no straight people in there, which describes how unsustainable other things besides being straight are.

Straylight · 31-35, F

@Riemann But it is stable. Gay people obviously don’t reproduce, the offspring of straight people grow up and some of them realize they’re gay. And bi and pan people don’t magically become straight just because they’re with someone of the opposite gender.
It’s not unstable, it is what it’s always been.
So either the lgbtq people grow up and get sent to the gay island and the population is stable because of it, or straight island also has lgbtq people and the example is pointless.

Riemann · 31-35, M

@Straylight Please reread my comment...

Straylight · 31-35, F

@Riemann I did read your comment. You said non straightness is inherently unstable and I made a counter argument.

Straylight · 31-35, F

@Riemann I mean, I get the original point of the post is that people are the way they are and men will need to adjust expectations rather than just complain about women. It’s just I’ve heard the island analogy many times and it never held up to scrutiny.

Blanchy · 31-35, F

@Riemann She's right, it's not unsustainable to have gay people in society, because it's only a small percentage, hence not a problem in terms of reproduction and population. What's the point of putting them on an island anyways? That's like saying it's not sustainable if ALL people were gay, but that's a hypothetical scenario which will never happen anyways.