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SandWitch it really is a difficult choice .
My brother took me in when I showed up on his doorstep. I stayed for maybe a year ...I can't remember - it was a bad time for me .
But his taking me in was what saved me . It gave me time to recover, someone to talk to, security .... peace.
It helped me find a place of my own .
So ...you never know . But it does shit me when people abuse the help they are given .😒