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OogieBoogie · F
I've given space to someone I know , and it's a two edged sword . It was supposed to give them a place to start fixing their life from ....but all it did was make them try less.🤷
Dv8rs · 18-21, F
@OogieBoogie Words of experience, and wisdom.
OogieBoogie · F
@Dv8rs it's a tough call. You want to believe in people, and give them the help they need.
But some take help and use it ....others take help and abuse it.🤷
But some take help and use it ....others take help and abuse it.🤷
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OogieBoogie · F
@SandWitch it really is a difficult choice .
My brother took me in when I showed up on his doorstep. I stayed for maybe a year ...I can't remember - it was a bad time for me .
But his taking me in was what saved me . It gave me time to recover, someone to talk to, security .... peace.
It helped me find a place of my own .
So ...you never know . But it does shit me when people abuse the help they are given .😒
My brother took me in when I showed up on his doorstep. I stayed for maybe a year ...I can't remember - it was a bad time for me .
But his taking me in was what saved me . It gave me time to recover, someone to talk to, security .... peace.
It helped me find a place of my own .
So ...you never know . But it does shit me when people abuse the help they are given .😒
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@SandWitch holy shit! It's insane how people think. See an inch and try and take a mile!....
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OogieBoogie · F
@SandWitch exactly .
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Dv8rs · 18-21, F
@OogieBoogie Sad, but true.
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PhoenixPhail · M
@OogieBoogie Yes, that's the thing you have to watch out for.
The arrangement must include an ultimatum; If they haven't found a place of their own by whatever time you both agree on, they're out.
The arrangement must include an ultimatum; If they haven't found a place of their own by whatever time you both agree on, they're out.
OogieBoogie · F
@PhoenixPhail I wish I could .
But deep , deep below all my sarcasm and swearing, lies a terrible softy .🙄I wish I could be so tough and do that .
But shhhh, don't tell anyone.
But deep , deep below all my sarcasm and swearing, lies a terrible softy .🙄I wish I could be so tough and do that .
But shhhh, don't tell anyone.
PhoenixPhail · M
@OogieBoogie 🤫