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Is anyone truly happy?

I’m starting to wonder if anyone is truly happy. I don’t know any truly happy person. I know a lot of people that pretend but when we have one on ones and soul sessions they admit they are not happy. Just makes me wonder what’s the point of living. What did I sign up for? What’s the purpose of this all?
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ViciDraco · 41-45, M
I subscribe to optimistic nihilism. There is no point to any of it, so we can assign any point to it that we like. And therein lies the secret. Happiness tends to be the result of something positive. Make your life about bringing positivity into the world and success in that should help improve both your happiness and the happiness of others.

However, happiness is always temporary. Left alone or behind simple contentment. From there it always has a chance to slide into stagnation.

I think a lot of the problems these days are that it is a struggle for many just to reach what society considers basic standards of living. Happiness is hard to get if needs are not met. However, driving away the misery of poverty and acquiring happiness through wealth are not the same things. Yet our society is hyperfocused on wealth as an indicator of success. People chase that success believing it will bring them happiness, but instead they find more of a hollow victory.
I love your comment. It’s very realistic and practical. I also share the same sentiments because what makes me unhappy now is my basic needs are not met. I’m working on it though. And I’m also lonely. @ViciDraco