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BlueVeins · 22-25
There's an element of truth to what he's saying. In a traditional romance setting, it's the man's job to approach the woman, pay for dates, and initiate all advances, whereas the woman's job is to exist and go along with it. There are always more men asking a woman to date them than they can accept. Men date who they can, women date who they want. In a traditional family, it's the parents' job to take care of the kids and the kids just have to accept that care and grow.
Men are very privileged in a lot of ways, but honestly that feeling of being super replaceable, and having to compensate for my lack of intrinsic desirability with work, social standing, and material support does feel pretty awful. I know it's wrong, but deep down I do feel that twinge of jealousy of women for being able to attract a man off of looks and sex appeal alone, despite the costs of that ability. The grass is always greener and all.
None of that's to downplay the whole torture and death of women & children. Those are incredibly horrific evils which must be resisted in every way possible.
Men are very privileged in a lot of ways, but honestly that feeling of being super replaceable, and having to compensate for my lack of intrinsic desirability with work, social standing, and material support does feel pretty awful. I know it's wrong, but deep down I do feel that twinge of jealousy of women for being able to attract a man off of looks and sex appeal alone, despite the costs of that ability. The grass is always greener and all.
None of that's to downplay the whole torture and death of women & children. Those are incredibly horrific evils which must be resisted in every way possible.
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ShadowWolf · 31-35, M
@BetweenKittensandRiots It's a rough percentage. The country is pretty well split down the middle. Not including indies, green party, or libertarians. You also overestimate the amount of country that are liberal. Many do not vote either. In any case, this was not a political thread. I've had a few women who were very into me who when they found out I wasn't liberal outright canceled dates. I think that is an incredibly stupid reason to write a person off.
BetweenKittensandRiots · 36-40, MVIP
@ShadowWolf You underestimate the degree to which I hate republicans though.
ShadowWolf · 31-35, M
@BetweenKittensandRiots That hate, is intolerance. And liberals are supposed to be the party of tolerance right? Seems like a contradiction to me. I'm a libertarian, so some of my social views align with liberals, such as pro choice. But I've NEVER been written off by a conservative girl for being pro choice. But I have been written off by liberal girls, by being pro fossil fuel, or anti-taxation.
Seems like conservative girls are more tolerant *shrug*
Seems like conservative girls are more tolerant *shrug*
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
Because it's the human condition to think that yourself is the one who suffers most of all. Or he thinks that being a decent human being is too much effort? Nobody and nothing is loved truly unconditionally. Men don't have to do more than the rest of us. Maybe he was also just projecting.
SW-User
No. I love my dad, brother and nephews unconditionally.
RoxClymer · 41-45, M
that wasn't his point, his was men are only loved conditionally, they Have to provide something in order to be loved.
Budwick · 70-79, M
You understand that Chris Rock is a comedian, right?
AJS30 · 31-35, M
Chris Rock wasn't saying bad things never happen to women, children or dogs. He was saying that men are loved for what they have and what they provide instead for who they are which is true. Men are unappreciated or underappreciated. Men are only valued if they can provide something otherwise they're viewed as losers, low-status and replaceable.
DrSunnyTheSkeptic · 26-30, M
Cats only
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
Sometimes I feel that unconditional love is lost from everyone these days. By the time most of us hit adulthood we are already jaded by the past experience of loving unconditionally and being hurt by it. Man or woman, it seems many of us have been broken by the time we're mature enough to settle down.
SW-User
There be fools all over the world.... not based on anything other than being fools and foolish. That statement is foolish.