Anyone else like me here? (Not hating)

I don't really understand why so many people have a high body count. I don't understand sex on the first date either. Just doesn't make sense, there needs to be some build up or something surely? I know I'm the odd one and I wish I wasnt unusual. I understand people who are sex workers having a high count. Some people even have to keep notes on how many...

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ViciDraco · 41-45, M

I don't shame anyone for their decisions on this, it really is deeply personal. For myself, I want there to be a connection first. I don't have a date count because I've been in relationships that were online for months before meeting in person. And even though that was a first date we had known each other a while. At 38, even being polyamorous, my body count is only 4.