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I was just blocked and I am satisfied with it.

Poll - Total Votes: 29

Life's too short block em!

Keep it civil and I would never block you

What's blocking?

You can only vote on one answer.

I on the other hand have never blocked anyone on this site in my life. I have been told once that African Americans are the dumbest most violent race on earth and still I did not block that person.

I am here to discuss. I can always stop conversing if I disagree or don't want to enagage. Thats my philosophy because I have had horrible chats with people that I highly dispise ( in the moment) and then a few months later I learn something amazing from them or find out that they were having a bad day or have a blind spot on some issue due to their own experience.

I also find the practice of sending a lengthy comment and then blocking extremely childish. It is to have the last word. Either you want to block me or you want to msg me which is it?
Blocking someone that you have friended for a long time to block over one discussion is a bit crazy to me.

I am proud of how I choose to handle disagreements. I can handle any religious or political belief and still try to find the humanity in that person. I like to base my discussions on logic and not feelings. I don't mind talking with people whose belief's offend me. Thats how we learn and come together and how I grow.
I will block for harassment but I haven't experienced that yet.
Oh well time for lunch!

What is your philosophy here?

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Miram · 31-35, F

My time is extremely precious.

I get more fulfillment from offline accomplishments and I don't have a problem blocking people who stand in my way in any form. By trying to pick silly fights with me, by spying on my profile to find faults, by harassing me..or by just disturbing my peace.

Not everyone is worth space in my life. Same applies to social media. Not everyone is entitled to talk to me or contact me.

I have limited resources and I have to spend them wisely.

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@Miram I can respect that we are all so different. I am prone to wanting some good to come of everything and being kinda willing to try to heal understanding one comment at a time which can be kinda silly I suppose

Miram · 31-35, F

@REMsleep Don't think it is silly.

What is best depends on one's temperament and one's goals so it wouldn't be the same for everyone.

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@Miram You are correct
I can learn from that. Everyone has a different temperment and its all valid

bijouxbroussard · F

I have had the experience of being harassed, online and in rl. I come on the site to interact with people and overall to have a pleasant experience. So I have no problem blocking when it feels like someone’s being a nuisance and I don’t want to see them on my posts.

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@bijouxbroussard Seems a common response. I'm kinda idealistic so I don't do it but I understand. I can respect that

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

I feel the same way as you pretty much. I don't care enough to block anyone most of the time. Strangers don't phase me & I dont waste my time stressing over disagreements.

Funny enough though, I blocked a few people here recently which is new because I've never blocked anyone on any social media before.
Each were people who tried attacking me for unexplained reasons so I simply blocked them because I have no space for negativity

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CestManan · 46-50, F

@ChiefWalksWith40oz You ain't ever rude to anyone, why would they give you grief?
Having to block sucks but sometimes one just doesn't have much choice.

BlueVeins · 22-25

If someone detracts from my experience here significantly more than they add to it, they're getting the block button. This standard is fairly forgiving though, since even profoundly asinine people can be worth having around, if nothing else as a laughing stock. Some, however, are just exclusively grating or disgusting. But yeah, nobody's entitled to my time and nobody's entitled to yours either.

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@BlueVeins I wouldn't say entitled but it's just my philosophy to seek the highest level of understanding by not blocking. The behavior would have to be ongoing and extreme for me to block. I don't only want just the pleasent conversations.

Oster1 · M

@REMsleep I have a lot of respect for you. I too, never block, mute or down vote. I definitely understand, in some circumstances.

revenant · F

I only block back when I realise someone has blocked me otherwise I prefer to debate or leave the subject and move on.
Unless somebody is harassing you, stalking you and having harmful intentions towards you , I find blocking childish.

PhoenixPhail · M

@revenant Except under those conditions, I find blocking childish, too.
What's more, it stops any would-be interactions which might have cleared up whatever the problem was, and it keeps people from moving forward in their lives. Division is a poor choice when cooperation can be so advantageous.

revenant · F

@PhoenixPhail I accept that not everyone thinks the same as me or you so I let it be. People decide for themselves..if people want to be childish, then they shall remain childish and perhaps grow later on.

littlemissdani · F

I wish everyone thought as you do
xx

LadyGrace · 70-79

Agree with you, sister. 👍

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BackyardShaman · 61-69, M

I block dense people

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@BackyardShaman Who are you to judge🤣

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SW-User

I don't have any strict philosophy as such.
I haven't needed to block anyone because no one has got to me in a way that I must eradicate their presence. And none of these debates can trigger me to that point.
The only time I'd consider blocking someone is if they begin to ruin my peace of mind and make it a toxic experience here.

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@SW-User Could that happen during one post?

SW-User

@REMsleep nope. Not on a post. But then I don't engage in politics or religion which cuts off a lot of toxicity.

Ontheroad · M

I like good conversations on... well, most anything. I will state my thoughts, ideas and opinions and listen to yours... it's how I learn and grow.

I draw the line when someone starts with personal attacks. Nope, I don't go there and if you do, one of two things will happen. I will always call you on it. Always. Then I will usually add a response and see what happens. I you double down on the attacks, I will tell you I've had enough, conversation over... or depending upon how you respond, I will block.

To date, I've blocked only one person. Well, other than the odd private message I get from ladies who are quite obviously wanting to draw men into some sort of pay per view thing. Block, block, block!

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Ontheroad · M

@REMsleep I suspect it's mostly those of us with some age on us - it's 20 something year olds mostly.

CestManan · 46-50, F

@Ontheroad

To date, I've blocked only one person. Well, other than the odd private message I get from ladies who are quite obviously wanting to draw men into some sort of pay per view thing. Block, block, block!

Blocking PEOPLE should be a last resort. SPAMMERS however, deserve NO consideration.
"Pay per view", it sounds like a really good channel on cable TV. 😄

Ontheroad · M

@CestManan I agree, which is why I've only blocked one person who after we disagreed, couldn't leave it alone. I still read posts and comments even if I disagree in principle... there is always something to learn.

Budwick · 70-79, M

What is your philosophy here?

To tell the truth.

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@Budwick Yes you should always tell your truth. No one is forced to listen but what about strong disagreements. After a few comments would you block them?

Budwick · 70-79, M

@REMsleep

After a few comments would you block them?

Generally no - I try not to block.
But sometimes the disrespect is too great.

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ABCDEF7 · M

I am here for discussions, not for arguments, but very few people are really willing to listen and think logically, which may sometimes change their current thinking.

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ABCDEF7 · M

@REMsleep I have zero persons blocked, at most I mute them to save my time. A healthy discussion and logical thinking is needed to come to any conclusion. But many people are just looking for people to support their view, without a bit of intention to know what is the truth. To be there you have to first understand, whatever you know and understand may not be the complete truth, and whatever the way I am thinking may not be the right approach.

But most of the persons are believers, instead of being seekers.

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@ABCDEF7 Wow I could not agree more so when I understand that someone is a believer then no matter what I need to stop trying. It won't be productive.

ABCDEF7 · M

@REMsleep That depends on what stage they have reached. In earlier stages it's easier, after that it becomes difficult, and finally it's next to impossible. Moreover it depends how much they are willing to listen and think honestly(with themselves).

PhoenixPhail · M

I am so sorry someone told you African Americans are the dumbest most violent race on Earth. SO unconscionable. And, an expression of their ignorance, fear and their conditioning. I know they didn't come up with that on their own. Prejudice of any kind isn't a natural human attribute. People are helped into it.

You're tolerant above and beyond the call.

I love your openness and acceptance, allowing you to "turn the other cheek," as it were. It's a rare quality - one in high contrast to much of what I've seen on SW, and in this world, in general.

I'm proud of how you choose to handle disagreements, too.
Finding humanity in someone who's belittled you in any way, is surely a mark of an evolved human being.

You are TOPS with me. 👍
I would enjoy knowing and having conversation with you.

cycleman · 61-69, M

Can be interesting to read a different perspective.
Also learn more of myself with my responses as well.
Often I am wondering if it was worth it!
In here though, I'm not placing the comments too impactful with my life.
Although I sort of wish I should and can be doing.

windinhishair · 61-69, M

I only block after someone has blocked me, If I even know they blocked me. Sometimes they have to get the last word in and block me after that, and if I see that I block them back. Otherwise I don't.

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@windinhishair Same

PassingThrough · 41-45, M

I’ve been blocked and have blocked. Initially I always feel a bit of a shock to see it happens (getting blocked) but most times it’s happened I feel like it’s for the best. I end up blocking when I know I see a post from someone and I will feel myself getting angry over something they do or say. Just that feeling that I can tell this person and I wouldn’t see eye to eye and to be honest I don’t have it in me to try and go out of my way to get to the bottom of things on a social media site. If I click with someone and form a bond or friendship I’m completely happy with that. If not I won’t lose sleep over it anymore.

ArtieKat · M

I have very rarely blocked anyone - persistent private messages are my only trigger

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ArtieKat · M

@littlemissdani ???

littlemissdani · F

@ArtieKat sorry it was a joke that crashed and burned

ArtieKat · M

@littlemissdani Ah, OK 😜

DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F

I block people for being hateful. That’s about it. I pretty much agree with you. Well said. Also I’m sorry that person made that offensive comment

SW-User

I have a no block policy which I've broken at most 4 times. I've since unblocked all of them though.

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@SW-User I respect you policy.

Spoiledbrat · F

It would be nice if everyone thought that way. I wouldn't mind being blocked at all.

Dino11 · M

Do what makes you happy. I report them to SW. Seems to work with a quick response.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

I’ve not blocked anyone either, people can be honest with me.

Foxes · F

I try not to block someone unless I have good reason to.

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

beautiful profile image, did you draw it?

SomeMichGuy · M

What a very adult/advanced view.

CestManan · 46-50, F

To me, blocking or getting blocked is like reading a book with pages missing.
Once in a while one just has to block someone but to me it is a last resort.
UNLESS it is some constant porn spammer. I do not mind adult content but I don't want it clogging up my feed either.

HootyTheNightOwl

Nah... I'm done with pond life that continues to try to bully me 9 months after I blocked them and seeing some of the vendettas people on here develop - I have decided that the block button is my friend.

I'm not here to be anyone's punching bag.

Domking · 61-69, M

Hopeful realist. My philosophy here is to be kind, loving and alert.Not to be expecting a lot, and not being pissed off with eVeryone either. Taking the best & leaving the rest

Carla · 61-69, F

Ive blocked one person my entire time on social media.
After six years of conflict, with no relief in sight, i had to do it.
I am not sorry.

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

Been here six years and have yet to block or mute anyone.

That's just how I am. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Others can do as they will.

Oster1 · M

I could not possibly, agree more. Good for you! My same sentiments, exactly. 😊🌷

Wiseacre · F

I block and delete when necessary...thankfully not many!

NoGamesTolerated · F

I’ll just add my 2 cents. The block can be your friend.

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REMsleep · 41-45, F

@SW-User Did you drink too much water? Next time go before you leave the house!

Zonuss · 41-45, M

Some people are just dumb.
Life goes on. 🙂

sspec

🎉🎊

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

I'm here to have fun and have meaningful conversations. Some of these convos will be with people with whom I disagree, and that is ok. What I am NOT here to do is take shit, so yeah, I absolutely will block someone I deem hostile and disrespectful to who I am. I also don't care for outwardly bigoted people and will mute or block or even report.

I'm all for hearing out different points of view, but under respectful conditions. I don't suffer fools.

ImperialAerosolKidFromEP · 46-50, M

My philosophy is that anyone who is going to drag me down instead of lift me up takes the last train to Blocksville. That's why my list is 4 digits.

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DffrntDrmmr · M

@LoneVoice I bet you and Ontheroad would get along well. 🤔

Oster1 · M

@DffrntDrmmr Yes, that is very odd. I saw that, too. WTH? 🤔

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