Why do women get tons of men to pick from even if we're dirt poor and men can get tons of women only if they're rich?

@nedkelly Best answer

@nedkelly And availability, and the same 'life stage'. heaps of women knock me back because of my work pattern and having my 4 y/o daughter (who doesn't live with me, so I don't have her all the time!).

@Nanori only if u r looking to fulfill your own needs Calculatively

@LeopoldBloom Generally that happens when a woman is in her late 30's or early 40's when she knows her "Girly" days are over and the bad boys no longer take any notice of her.. That's when they look for a nice guy who has saved their money and worked hard, a guy who has a house and is stable.. They are then looking for a retirement option.. They want a man they can control and use as a utility..

@Adstar I think younger women who are ready to settle down look for that, too.

@LeopoldBloom Well yes there are exceptions to every rule.. People are individuels.. But we are talking about the general average trend of what woman do as they mature and grow old. Woman have different priorities when they are young / middle aged / Elderly..

As Cindi lauper sang the modern girls anthem..

Girls just wanna have fun..

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@bijouxbroussard Why do I read it as close to the same?

@bijouxbroussard maybe referencing that I think it was Elizabeth Taylor that said

"Money is the best deodorant"

But I totally agree with you many many wonderful women are lonely!!

@bijouxbroussard From personal experience that doesn't gel, but maybe for some. Remember the 666 rule - modern women all seem to want a man with a 6-figure income, 6 inch plus penis, be more than 6 ft tall, have a 6 figure plus financial portfolio (or a property), so that writes off most men immediately. I have the income, but none of the rest. But I do irregular shiftwork to get it so I'm not home every night or available every weekend.

I have a job and an apartment. I don’t have a license,so don’t own a car . . From my experience,I think very little makes us attractive and it doesn’t take much for a girl to be repulsed by a guy @bijouxbroussard

@zonavar68 Not all women are that shallow, but the ones who aren’t don’t look like supermodels, either.
@UnlikeableAndy When I married my husband, he didn’t have a car. Didn’t stop him from being a great guy, and I appreciated him.

@Beatbox34 There’s a saying, "Marry for money and you will [b]earn every penny[/b].” 🙁

@bijouxbroussard True true.

Idk why people run after money. I mean it's essential but it isn't everything in a relationship. The basic essentials are required and if you have enough, one can make it through.

@bijouxbroussard I get that sentiment, and how it's skewed, but I do feel it's cherry picking with all good reason too

@LeopoldBloom oh yes that’s how it works. Women don’t like to hear that they’re dating a “nobody” 😄. When you get something good going, they want in! Haha

@eMortal It was surprising how many women started hitting on me after I was engaged.

@LeopoldBloom Lol perhaps that's my problem. Never been married to either of my previous long-term partners. Had I been the 'attachment theory' of having a 'beautiful wedded wingwoman' probably would be bringing a lot more women into my presence. Sadly that can't happen now, so like most mature age men that are hard working and not really 'available' I'm on the relationship scrap-heap.

@Muthafukajones Probably - more stuff I don't understand so stay away from.

@zonavar68 why would you do that?