Why do women get tons of men to pick from even if we're dirt poor and men can get tons of women only if they're rich?

@Adstar Not necessarily.

Men value looks
Women value excitement

@LeopoldBloom

The Same ""Looks"" that men find attractive are the same physical indicators that a woman is fertile..

Young woman WANT excitement and many try to extend their ""girl"" phase beyond their natural girl years trying to extend that ""Fun"" stag as long as they can..

But smart females know they need to get their man and the security that that man represents before they lose their physical fertile looks..

@Adstar There’s definitely a potential for conflict as women also want a stable, boring guy who they can count on to take care of them.

@LeopoldBloom Generally that happens when a woman is in her late 30's or early 40's when she knows her "Girly" days are over and the bad boys no longer take any notice of her.. That's when they look for a nice guy who has saved their money and worked hard, a guy who has a house and is stable.. They are then looking for a retirement option.. They want a man they can control and use as a utility..

@Adstar I think younger women who are ready to settle down look for that, too.

@LeopoldBloom Well yes there are exceptions to every rule.. People are individuels.. But we are talking about the general average trend of what woman do as they mature and grow old. Woman have different priorities when they are young / middle aged / Elderly..

As Cindi lauper sang the modern girls anthem..

Girls just wanna have fun..

[youtube=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PIb6AZdTr-A]