I need to tell this story. I FEEL LIKE MEN LOVE TO PICK on ME. On this site I met a guy that...

Someone giving their personal information just after a few days? That's a red flag

leeloh · F

That's immature af and a major red flag. Let's not forget he can always give you fake fb/instagram profiles.

You should [b]NEVER [/b]do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable and feel guilty about when rejecting .

He's trying to manipulate you, and good you didn't fall for that.

A good person with good intentions, friend or whatever, will never rush you into anything, especially if you already clearly communicated that you're not comfortable.

CestManan · 46-50, F

It was a Catfish. They are very quick to try to get one's personal info.

The reason catfish block those who are not falling for their BS is so they do not contact the same potential victims again.

When someone blocks you, they are doing you a favor.

NewRaven · 51-55, F

I had someone on here (that I “knew” all of 1 day) tell me that I was too secretive because I wouldn’t tell him my daughter’s name. Said that made me look suspicious and fake and that he wasn’t going to talk to me, so he blocked me. I figured good riddance, leave my kids out of this perv.

Pretzel · 61-69, M

two rules
1) we like nudes
2) when in doubt - refer to rule #1

sorry you had that experience. - no I don't want you nudes - I can find all I want on the fetish sites when I'm in THAT mood.

Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

You can't lump all guys together. You know this.
You don't need to feel bad about what happened.
Screw that loser. Laugh and move on.
If you want to know a secret .... Clowns are the most honest users here.
Just sayin'

Mktonght · 61-69, M

Very intelligent response, he obviously had some ulterior motives.
Yes trust and then verify and be patient, I have a number of female friends that I have met and developed "friendships" with, however it was actually months of chatting before we shared phone numbers etc and that was for a bible study we did together each day.

WanderingThrough · 31-35, F

Unfortunately this kind of behaviour is so common here. People offer their personal information / photos and expect you to do the same. That’s not how it works. You’re entitled to your anonymity, please never forget that. I think it’s really wonderful when someone can meet people here who they are comfortable with sharing that information with, but that doesn’t always happen and usually not so fast.

You did the right thing. I’m sorry you encountered this person.

GovanDUNNY · M

I never ask for personal info this isnt a dating site CD

ExperienceDLT · M

That sounds suspicious I would not give out my information to this person

Jeremi · 41-45, M

point that bastard out. now!

Spracer

Run forrest run. get away for the jerk and block him forever.

Adamski24 · 41-45, M

I'm the same I never give out my private information.
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losthorizons · 51-55, M

He’s probably cat fishing you be careful

EuphoricTurtle · 41-45, M

I think the silver lining is that he pulled that crap on you after only a few days, that way you didn't end up wasting so much time on that carpet stain. Still sucks to have to go through that nevertheless, especially since you had previously discussed that.

Jenny1234 · 51-55, F

Dont give these people your information and don’t accept their sm accounts and phone numbers. Lots of them are psychopaths

Have your rl friends introduce you to a good guy