Bleak · 36-40, F
There’s not much to say.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
I am not very good at it.
People seem to take that personally, like I am supposed to be here to entertain them.
There are good guys here, but too many want to talk dirty or roleplay, even if you tell them you don't want to.
I won't even flirt, because I don't wanna...
I have had so many guys ask me a dirty question or come right out with some sick fantasy they want to fulfill in the very first message.
A couple of "women", as well.
I would rather not take the chance anymore, that is my reason anyway.
People seem to take that personally, like I am supposed to be here to entertain them.
There are good guys here, but too many want to talk dirty or roleplay, even if you tell them you don't want to.
I won't even flirt, because I don't wanna...
I have had so many guys ask me a dirty question or come right out with some sick fantasy they want to fulfill in the very first message.
A couple of "women", as well.
I would rather not take the chance anymore, that is my reason anyway.
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Mellomarsha · 61-69, F
@scorpiolovedeep That's rather harsh. Some of us have jobs; some are caregivers; some have interests in addition to SW...and only 24-hour days to pack all that into. Quantity can be difficult. Quality is what it is, the luck of the draw.
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Truth can be harsh.
Everyone has different views on SW based on their experiences.
I acknowledge that.
I also have a job , have interests too
Spending time and energy with a wrong or incompatible people can be draining.
@Mellomarsha
Everyone has different views on SW based on their experiences.
I acknowledge that.
I also have a job , have interests too
Spending time and energy with a wrong or incompatible people can be draining.
@Mellomarsha
SW-User
So many times I have invested quite times to chat and if it’s a guy they always most often want to start talking about the size of their cock or how big are my boobs. I have had guys send me a pic of their hard cock instantly without asking if I want to see their hard on. I have nothing against flirting or nude photos but a dick pic is not very interesting to me sorry. I also get asked if I would send them a photo of myself naked 🤣. Unlikely anyone would get a free nude photo 😁😁
Gerryguy · 51-55, M
@SW-User sadly, that seems to be the experience with most ladies on here. There is a time and place for "adult" chat but damn... get to know her first
Mellomarsha · 61-69, F
Because our online time is limited, we make a difference better if we speak to many at once--i.e. within forums.
Because our time is limited, we derive useful and lasting growth better when we exchange thoughts with the many, on forums, not just those of a single person, chatting.
Because our time is limited, we derive useful and lasting growth better when we exchange thoughts with the many, on forums, not just those of a single person, chatting.
Likestoenjoylife · 51-55, M
Havent been on that long but each week there less people who want to chat beginning to think its a waste of time. Plus good weather is coming will be doing more outside after work and weekends.
familyfunguy · M
I don't think I've had much of an interest in casual chatting with strangers online since IRC and the likes of ICQ were still relevant.
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GoFish ·
it's out there somewhere lol
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uncalled4 · 56-60, M
As long as you're not the Gerry who offers VIP without actually doing it, I'm good for a chat!
@MethDozer Yes, this about covers it! and even the nudist people half the time aren't even regular nudists they're the green kind who still can't control themselves when they see someone naked so they're constantly talking about it from a sexual aspect and it makes the whole thing extra awk.
@MethDozer that's what i mean, outside of it being just a regular lifestyle choice it's really not"exciting" or anything at all. i find those who push to want to chat about it the second they do i'm like "what's to know?" and it quickly goes toward fetish town. they always reveal themselves post-haste. Also most nudists have the good sense to carry a towel with them to sit on, thank god. otherwise that's just stank af.
CreyvinMoorhead · 41-45, M
Hi Beery