I feel lost

I just wanted to vent here because I really need to get this out. So, I got done with my 12th grade (the results are yet to come) and now I have to give all these entrances to get into universities. The thing is that, I'm not able to focus on anything. I'm not able to study. I also recently started dating and I'm not able to understand that relationship too. I feel so so so overwhelmed all the time and I just don't understand what I'm supposed to do. I can't talk to my parents either because they just don't care. If any of you can offer some advice please go ahead, I could really use some rn.

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Pitsilizater · 31-35, M

I suggest seeking advice mostly from people that you consider successful in the thing you need advice about. Don't take relationship advice from people in bad relationship, don't take nutrition and training advice from fat people etc. Maybe they know what they are talking about, but they probably don't.
Having said that, here is my advice (lol). You are very young and probably don't have experience with most things, so you shouldn't judge yourself too hard if you do something wrong unintentionally. Allow yourself to become who you really are and be open. The only relationships that are forced upon you are with your family and that's where you should try the most. For every other relationship you should decide how much of yourself you are willing to reveal and be aware of how much the other parties are willing to do the same. If you aren't on the same page just leave. There is almost no positive that can come out of trying to change someone else, but mostly suffering. Remember, pain is mandatory, but suffering is optional. Try not to suffer unnecessarily.

P.s. sorry for bad English I am Greek and high rn.