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He texts me every day

But he says he’s not interested in romance. So, to me that means don’t text me every day and yet he does, what say SW?

I definitely talk much more than he does, but he opens up the conversation because he texts me every day in the morning and in the evening I wouldn’t expect that from someone who didn’t want anything romantic.

Do you think he’s doing that just to keep me interested in sex that I’m definitely interested in whether he texts me or not? Lol.
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solitaire · 41-45, F
Ask him upfront what his intentions are
Ontheroad · M
Not all men are interested in just sex; not all men are interested in romance and not all men are interested in just one or the other.

Shocking I know, but some men enjoy just friendship.

Now, if you say both of you are interested in sex, then he very well may continue to text you just for that reason and see you as his sexy friend that for whatever reason isn't someone he wants to be romantically involved with.

If you are looking for a romantic relationship and he isn't your choice is to stay or go. If you go and he really is wanting a romantic relationship, he'll chase you. If he doesn't, he let you go and move on.
Have you never heard of a platonic friendship? Maybe he is lonely and just likes to talk?
Yes, this is called coitus insurance.
Munumbis · 46-50, M
He's probably just looking for someone to talk with. He likes you but as he said he's not interested in romance.
GoFish ·
Well he says he's not interested in romance but he’s obviously interested in something
A MAN DOESN’T TEXT A WOMAN EVERY MORNING AND EVERY EVENING BECAUSE HE’S HOPING TO BECOME HER PEN PAL! 💀

HE WANTS SOMETHING.
WanderingHelplessly · 51-55, M
This is a situation where you need to confront him with this. I understand you coming here to ask, but we, the people of SW, can only give a vague response. A guess that still leaves you wondering. Confront him and see what he says.
TheHammer · M
I have a lady friend friend here. I check for her messages in the morning and at night. Sometimes during the day.
There's no romance involved.
TheHammer · M
@Bluebirdsonmyshoulder
If I don't see a message from her I do message. I figure she was busy or just didn't feel like writing.
If days pass and I don't see a message, id probably ask her if she's ok.
If I see here here interacting but notessaging me, id assume she's done with our friendship and id let it go. I would have my feelings hurt, but people come and go.
That's just my experience I don't know what's on your friend's mind. You could ask him.
Bluebirdsonmyshoulder · 51-55, F
@TheHammer he already told me he doesn’t want anything romantic so I question the texting me more often than not
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Sounds like he's stringing you along.

In my experience, that effort is usually self serving to them. They want someone to respond to them so they still feel wanted.

If you're getting sex, heck yes, get it lady because that's about the only thing you can hope for from a man who doesn't know what he wants.
RebelRaven · 51-55, F
From my perspective, he’s holding you hostage, in the fact that his daily messages make it so he lives rent free on your mind which makes you not totally open for someone new. Like he’s saying “ I don’t want you, but I don’t want you with anyone else either.” It’s an unfair tactic/game. I’m sorry, been in this position a few times myself.
Bluebirdsonmyshoulder · 51-55, F
@RebelRaven ha ha a little does he know
PHlover19701 · 56-60, M
Sounds like he simply likes your company and talking to you, but I dont know the topics of discussion.

 
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