Am I manipulating him if I want to text him but I wait because it’s “his turn?”

Really it is.

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I’m too old for games and I’m not keeping score. If I felt like texting, I’d text. If that’s something that would bother him in any significant way, then he’s not the one for me.

Magenta · F

Non, I wouldn't say that is manipulation. To me, it would mean I don't want to push him, or pressure him too much. Depends on if the last message was a question or??

Infamous607 · 51-55, M

No I wouldn't call that manipulating. I would call it silly tho. I double and triple text if I feel like. Of none of I don't.

Bluebirdsonmyshoulder · 46-50, F

@Infamous607 fair enough, but he said he did not want to pressure me so I know that means that he does not want me to pressure him lol

Infamous607 · 51-55, M

@Bluebirdsonmyshoulder
I don't know. That's too much guessing. If that's the case then he should just say it. For me it should flow naturally. Text when you want . Don't text if you don't.

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

Relationships have to be equal and both people have to put in effort. If you look at your text history whoever texts more is more interested. Text less and he may text more.

gregloa · 61-69, M

If that’s a big deal text him it’s your turn!

Shybutwilling2bfriends · 61-69

Stop playing tag

BrandNewMan · M

I mean .. yeah, its kinda gray area

YoMomma ·

No you are manipulating yourself

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