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Getting texts from her

and my mums literally next to me I'm not out and shes teasing me what do I do?????😨😨😨😨😨😨
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Is your Mum seeing the texts? Like what they say?
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@DarkHeaven no but shes getting sus of me tilting my phone away. Shes saying that she wishes I was there with her to cuddle and that her parents are out "😉" I know shes just teasing me
but still I am trying to figure out how to come out to my parents if she carries on shes gonna out me
@SW-User How old are you, sweetheart?
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sfish007 · 61-69, M
@SW-User be smart.. and safe.. go on your own timeline.. and based on what she wants - is this what you want for your first time.. she seems a bit more dominant than maybe you are ready for..
@SW-User Wow. That’s very young. Do you think your parents would be supportive?
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@sfish007 I guess so I just like her a lot
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@DarkHeaven I hope so but I don't know how they will react
@SW-User how old is the girl you like?
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@DarkHeaven she just turned 17
@SW-User that’s a really big age difference at your age. You really need to be carful. As far as your Mum, I pretty much knew at 12 that I was gay. I didn’t come out to them until I was 22, almost 23… but times are different. It’s very scary to come out but they can’t help or support you if they don’t know what’s going on. 🖤
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@DarkHeaven yeah I think I'm a little scared and thinking the worst and I know I just really like her
@SW-User I didn’t realize how young you are. I don’t want you making a mistake you regret. You have a whole lifetime ahead of you. Please be careful.
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@DarkHeaven I will be she knows I'm still new to this and I'm much younger than her
@SW-User if she pushes you into sex or anything you are uncomfortable with… you need to tell her no and end it. I think if you’re looking to get into a relationship, it might be time to come out to your parents or at least someone you trust that is physically where you are. This is a lot to handle all yourself at your age.
@SW-User how do your parents feel about gay people in general?
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@DarkHeaven they are supportive of the community dad a bit less than mum
@SW-User then I would confide in her first… you two alone. She will help you tell your Da, when the time is right. You need your Mum on this. I don’t know what I’d do without mine.
@SW-User and she can’t help if she don’t know. She’ll be glad you confided in her.
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@DarkHeaven I'll talk to her thank you so much for your advice 🤗💜💜
@SW-User my niece who is my best friend in the world is 10. It’s exactly what I would tell her at your age if she were to tell me that she is gay. We all need support. Be safe and be well. Light and love. 🦋