Found this on Reddit before. The entitlement...

I know that us humans have preferences when it comes to dating but, [b]my.... God.[/b] I wouldn't even have a date with women like these. She'd basically see you as an ATM and not who you really are. That's the nature of gold diggers I guess. Men can be too, but I believe the spoiled women are more known.

I should have a story of what I want in a woman. Unlike her, I'll think realistically.

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LeopoldBloom · M

At least she's making that clear up front, although I have a feeling if the guy was 6'2" and ripped, and drove a Porsche, she wouldn't bring up any of that.

xSiFiGamer2016x · 22-25, M

@LeopoldBloom Well, there's that. If she saw what you described as a Chad she'd go like, "Yes! Take me, king!" But instead, she does this. Hey, it's her list, she can do what she wants.

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LeopoldBloom · M

@xSiFiGamer2016x I just appreciate that she's making it clear before it goes any further.

LeopoldBloom · M

@Misspotat Well, the woman in this case isn't going to take a leap of faith, she has very specific demands. And I wouldn't take a leap of faith with her, either. If I met someone like that, my response would be "sorry, not interested." It would be no different from a religious woman saying that her date has to attend her church.

There is an advantage to making outrageous demands, it winnows the field.

originnone · 61-69, M

@LeopoldBloom I thought it made sense in principle. It's just the way it was put. I'd pay for the sitter and "agree" to pay for travel if she was unhappy. The other things I wouldn't expect her to do, so they would be by her choice only.

LeopoldBloom · M

@originnone When I was dating, a woman having a kid would have been disqualifying. But if I had gone out with one, I would have expected her to arrange her own child care. As for "mad money," I'd expect her to have that, too. It would have been a red flag if a woman said "hey, can you give me some money in case I don't like you and want to end the date early?" That's implying the possibility that the date will be so awful, she won't even want me to drive her home.

originnone · 61-69, M

@LeopoldBloom Yeah, there's nothing wrong with any of that. My perspective probably comes from my extreme age....I still feel it's my job to show her a good time and to not have to pay for it.

LeopoldBloom · M

@originnone For me, that amounts to arranging transportation and paying for dinner or whatever we end up doing. Anything beyond that is on her.

originnone · 61-69, M

@LeopoldBloom Yeah....I'm not far off from that. The woman who made the assertion was so aggressive. I get her point....that there are hidden costs but, I bet she's not fun at parties....

Elessar · 26-30, M

@LeopoldBloom [quote]drove a Porsche[/quote]
Pff, what a peasant. Can't even afford a Ferrari! /s