Is it better to message someone first or make them friend and see if they do it back before you message them?

what is the best way to make friends on here? or is it to first send a gift an message even?

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You seem pretty obsessed with messages and gifts. Best way to make friends is to be patient and interact with users out here in public through posts, replies and comments.