If you ask someone to sext and they say you can send dirty messages but they can't. Then just say sorry I have to go do something. Would you think

That could mean a lot of things. Maybe they are not good at it or uncomfortable with it, maybe they just want to be aroused without putting effort into it, maybe they are interested but want to keep their hands clean in case their SO gets into their phone, ...

Not into it or you

Id send him pics of piles of trash and dirty dishes and unwashed clothes just to fuck with him back

Religious guilt, probably.

I was letting a guy do that for a week.. i didn't offer him hardly anything in return because i wasnt really into it but enjoyed what he had to say.

Sexting isn't really my thing... I'm not comfortable with it, no matter how into the other person I am.

Definitely hiding something like a wife!

Yes that they suck at sexting

To me it seems kind of selfish.

yeah, thats a bit of a red flag

Pretty much

Or they just don’t want to. Maybe they’re okay with you sending something they can show to others, but don’t want to be vulnerable themselves.