When you're blocked by association (just for being friends with someone) but weren't involved...

If we were friends, I’d be disappointed but otherwise wouldn’t be bothered.

How about people that tell others to block you, that’s petty. 🙄

Degbeme · 70-79, M

I just move on.

Lilymoon · F

yeah that's happened a few times. I chalk it up to f*ck you too.
Oh... and good riddance. lol

itsok · 31-35, F

That has happened to me before. Thinking it through helps. Initially it does feel like something against me, but when you think about how upset that person must get just because they see someone who is friendly with someone they don’t like, I end up feeling sorry for them.
I know how upsetting small things can be to myself, and I feel lucky things like that don’t bother me.

SW-User

I guess it depends on whether you had been friends with the person who blocked you or not. If you had known someone for a while, and don't understand the block, you could try getting a mutual friend to email them and ask what happened.

Otherwise, if it's a stranger who blocked you, I don't see why you would miss them anyway.

sweetdream · 22-25, F

I wouldn't feel bad about that lol

Magenta · F

I would think I was in middle school.

pdxlinux · 41-45, M

i got blocked by someone without any explanation and i keep wondering why but i know also that i cannot do anything about it. i will wish them well. that is my choice. to move on.

bijouxbroussard · F

I take the position that I haven’t lost anything of value. If it wasn’t someone I considered a friend, no loss. And if I had considered them a friend, I was clearly mistaken. 🤨

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

1. How can you ever know that for a fact?
2. If so, f them.
3. That's enough robot for today.

SW-User

Just blow it off, it wasn't worth it any way

Pinkstarburst

Go tell the teacher in them

Juvia · 18-21, F

It happens and it's their choice. I don't think they're worth it if they are trying to make me choose between two people. Instead they make the choice themselves, so it works out.