I Have Been ' Blocked '

And i was just being honest...

I'm pretty new here and I've been chatting with some people. One guy who was 46-50 years old said last night that he wishes he was in bed with me. This was after he was saying that he had to go to bed and I said I was already in bed.

Well I responded that that's just not where my head is at and please don't say stuff like that. And now I'm blocked.

So I'm 17 and some almost 50 year old says he wishes he was in bed with me... is it bad of me too just let him know I'm not feeling the same way? I tried to be nice about it.

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Bushmanoz · 61-69, M

If you remember his name report him. And no it wasn't bad of you in any way! You didn't even have to be nice. It's not a dating or instant gratification site and you are a real person. Why don't people ever think about what someone else might be going thru before being an absolute wanker. Sorry if I ranted

IAmJess · 22-25, F

@Bushmanoz Report him?? For what? I wasn't upset by it and he wasn't rude about it. I liked chatting with him up to that point and just wanted to let him know that my mind wasn't there.

Bushmanoz · 61-69, M

You are too nice, you will get flooded with these type of guys. Unwanted sexual advances are all too common here, I understand you were not upset, but why on earth couldnt he have just apologised instead of blocking you? to me that shows he was going thru the motions of being nice to get his jollies. But what ever works for you is the right course of action. I guess i was more upset for you than you were. just get sick of seeing it. It's what ruined EP

IAmJess · 22-25, F

@Bushmanoz Exactly. He coulda said ooops sorry and we would still be chatting. But yeah you could be right about the fun chat just being an act.

I've seen a lot of people mention EP. I've never even heard of the place before coming here.