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I Have Been ' Blocked '

[big][center]And i was just being honest...[/center][/big]

I'm pretty new here and I've been chatting with some people. One guy who was 46-50 years old said last night that he wishes he was in bed with me. This was after he was saying that he had to go to bed and I said I was already in bed.

Well I responded that that's just not where my head is at and please don't say stuff like that. And now I'm blocked.

So I'm 17 and some almost 50 year old says he wishes he was in bed with me... is it bad of me too just let him know I'm not feeling the same way? I tried to be nice about it.

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Nat15 · F

You did what you wanted and you were nice. How can that be wrong ? *hug*

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Nat15 · F

@IAmJess yeah.

IAmJess

@Nat15 😟 Thinking about it...

Nat15 · F

Id love to be able to message you but you gotta do what's best for you. And you're awesome either way :) @IAmJess

CrystalSparkles

[b][c=#BF0080] Dont let them win, I get this all the time hunny. I just dont reply, block the recipient and delete the message :)[/c][/b]

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IAmJess

@CrystalSparkles Lol that's cool. I'm in a pink mood some days, but not often.

CrystalSparkles

@IAmJess It is hard with so many lame-o's around!

IAmJess

@CrystalSparkles Lol, yup

CrustyDDingus · 36-40, M

If he blocked you then he saved you the trouble of blocking him, because you'd probably have to at some point.

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IAmJess

@CrustyDDingus Yup. I guess. He seemed like a nice guy. Oh well.

Corwinnx · 56-60, M

@IAmJess Nothing is wrong with just being friends at all. Sadly he was very immature and it showed.

IAmJess

@Corwinnx yup

manly · 46-50, M

Don't feel too bad about it, ok? These guys are usually trolls who play stupid games like that with many women here. They need to get a life. lol

IAmJess

@manly Lol okay, thanks!

Corwinnx · 56-60, M

@manly That is a sad truth, that makes men in general look bad. There are some of us who actually just like women and enjoy friendship and good conversation.

IAmJess

@Corwinnx Good to know.

Corwinnx · 56-60, M

Absolutely not. Being honest and straight forward is a good thing. And unless you had given him reason to, which I don't believe for an instant you did, he never should have said such a thing to you. Or to any woman for that matter.

IAmJess

@Corwinnx Lol thanks. I agree!

Bushmanoz · 56-60, M

If you remember his name report him. And no it wasn't bad of you in any way! You didn't even have to be nice. It's not a dating or instant gratification site and you are a real person. Why don't people ever think about what someone else might be going thru before being an absolute wanker. Sorry if I ranted

IAmJess

@Bushmanoz Report him?? For what? I wasn't upset by it and he wasn't rude about it. I liked chatting with him up to that point and just wanted to let him know that my mind wasn't there.

Bushmanoz · 56-60, M

You are too nice, you will get flooded with these type of guys. Unwanted sexual advances are all too common here, I understand you were not upset, but why on earth couldnt he have just apologised instead of blocking you? to me that shows he was going thru the motions of being nice to get his jollies. But what ever works for you is the right course of action. I guess i was more upset for you than you were. just get sick of seeing it. It's what ruined EP

IAmJess

@Bushmanoz Exactly. He coulda said ooops sorry and we would still be chatting. But yeah you could be right about the fun chat just being an act.

I've seen a lot of people mention EP. I've never even heard of the place before coming here.

SW-User

Honesty is never wrong. You did the right thing.

IAmJess

@SW-User Thanks. That's what I thought.

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IAmJess

@justfun Worry about what? Oh, being blocked? Yesterday's news dude. Already forgotten. :)

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