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I Hate It When People Disappear On Ep

It is a giant pet peeve of mine and we've all been guilty of doing it. But when you lead someone on and find a connection..how do you know that person is ok with it. Random thoughts and insecurities blossom. Its not fun having your heart and soul played with. Maybe you didnt mean too as you got busy. But after a week of not hearing i choose to pretend that they died instead of being a jerk.
I think life gets crazy at times. And people don't think they are hurting others. If they ghost you that is just wrong. I jump from my life onto SW and back and forth. Doesn't mean I don't care. But I nearly always reply to friends though it may take me some time. I drop lines to those with whom I chat here. Making good friends on here requires commitment and time. Many people just don't care to invest themselves. For those who do, the rewards are great. I have more online friends than other life ones really. And I hope to meet my intimate circle friends here one by one. Keep on trying to connect here and make friends. It is wonderful when it works out.
SW-User
I got so used to people just upping and disappearing that it no longer matters to me. I expect anyone to just do it.
There seem to be different rules of consideration online.
SW-User
@Moonbeamsglow Or they cannot settle down with anything substantial, they need to do a 1000 of them together. :) Either way, not our cup of tea.
Moonbeamsglow · 41-45, F
So true.. Lol. I like your outlook on things.
SW-User
@Moonbeamsglow :) Thank you.
I just assumed I dodged a bullet there as I don't want to be friends with ghosters.
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
I like that. Just post a [image deleted] on their last post and move on
Sadly, being a jerk is far more conmon than dying. even when everybody dies eventually some day.
Moonbeamsglow · 41-45, F
True its sad as it was a 2 year 'ship' ( i dont know what type of relationship it was so i use ship) and he just disappeared 6 weeks ago. So i had my funeral for him and all.
Sunflowerx · 51-55, F
I am sorry this happened to you . It’s hurts a lot and 2 years along time @Moonbeamsglow
acpguy · C
Maybe they were just ghosts ................or do you have people in your head talking to you like mine do?
Cervincio · 61-69, M
I thought EP itself disappeared making all of the people on EP disappear. 🤔
Montanaman · M
I never play games, or leave anyone hanging.😔🤗

 
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