When I joined here I put on my profile “looking for an escape”

A little nosey through my message requests and half the men here seem to think that means I want an online affair.. poor choice of words from me? Or poor judgement from them?

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4meAndyou · F

Well, I would say that ANY female who posts her age between 18 and 30, and posts even a partial photo which is even partially attractive, is going to be inundated with requests from horny, horny men.

FreddieUK · 70-79, M

@4meAndyou Especially when there is little else on their profile and all friends are hidden. Filling the profile with cat and dog forums is also a warning that you're also dealing with an airhead or a catfish. This is not true of the person posting the question here.