WHY DO "SOME" WOMEN RESORT TO POSTING PRIVATE CHATS OF THEIR CONVOS WITH GUYS THEY'RE NO LONGER ON GOOD TERMS WITH?

I'm not certain what chats you are talking about, but what I've seen posted here, user names are almost always redacted, and are screen captures of parts of private messages where some perv is messaging them... not of those they are friends with.

I wish SW didn't have rules that required the poster to block out the user name.