Continue chat with my ex friend's son? So one of my very good friends for two decades randomly...

ninalanyon · 61-69, T

Just make it perfectly clear that all he's going to get is conversation! Tell him straight out, don't just imply it.

My esthetician is 37 with a 24 year old Fiance. I wouldn’t say him being young is bad. From what I observed about men, they’re either going to be mature or not. Age doesn’t mature them. I’ve met many 50+ year old dudes who act like high schoolers.

Just go with your personal flow. If you’re not interested, don’t do it obviously. If you are, think about your boundaries and make them clear from the start.

Adogslife · 61-69, M

Well, if you’re “unsure”, was it an accident that you called him a “kid”? Women don’t date kids.

Also, isn’t this up to you? If you want sex for fun or as a confidence builder, go for it. It doesn’t have to be permanent or exclusive.

calicuz · 51-55, M

Don't do it, unless you're ready to "raise" a boy in a man's body.🤷‍♂️

ArtieKat · M

As @ninalanyon said......

Musicman · 61-69, M

Be honest and tell him you are not romantically interested in him, but you like him as a friend. Maybe even add in that you enjoyed babysitting him as a kid.

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

Do you think your friend might have cut contact because of her son's feelings?

GovanDUNNY · M

Do what you think is right by you .

Dolimyte · 41-45, M

What would you like to get out of your relationship with him? Is chatting casually as far as you'd like to take it?

ineedadrink · 51-55, M

This sounds like a bunch of hurt in the making. The age difference, his mother, that you used to babysit him, all potentially combine to be a right mess. 🤗

HotPizza71 · 51-55, M

You probably know where the conversation will lead too soon...
You're a grown woman,would you consider a short term fun relationship?

Lilnonames · F

Sounds like trouble a brewing

Hanginginthere · 31-35, M

possibly your ex friend is using their son to get close to you, seems odd I'd disengage regardless

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