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What is something you discussed on SW…

Either on a post or in private message that you regret?

And will discussing it on this post make you doubly regret it?
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I can think of some moments where I tried to discuss something more serious and everyone just made jokes. Look, I make sarcastic and joking comments all the time, but not every moment online is the time to be a comedian. Just saying. 🤷‍♂️
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@SW-User now that's funny🙂
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@atlantic59 you are a born stand-up -love your delivery👍🙂
That’s not fair. Even a clown has feelings and can’t be funny all of the time

Nebula · 41-45, F
Nebula · 41-45, F
@Ghostinthemachine 🫤 Ive probably said a lot.of stuff I shouldn't have over the years, hahaha.
@Nebula I hope you can take comfort in the fact you’re not alone
JustNik · 51-55, F
Oh sometimes I use the box to explore or express something I later find myself uncomfortable at having put out there in the world, but that regret seems to have more to do with my own state of mind than what I actually said. The subject matter may be more personal, more negative, or mundane, but heaven knows I’ve left plenty of those behind and never felt an urgent need to delete. 🤷‍♀️ Got to go with what feels ok I guess.
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@JustNik exactly. A free form for thought. I go back to the Experience Project and just kept the same attitude. And though friends and detractors come and go -your journey remains intact as a tree grows through seasons
@JustNik I’ve shared stuff here that I haven’t with people in my real life. To me that seems strange, yet it makes sense. Maybe there are less consequences with opening up to people I will never meet 🤷
JustNik · 51-55, F
@Ghostinthemachine maybe along the same lines of why I become a social butterfly in an elevator full of strangers. 😂 I know what makes a difference for me here - like the fact that the possibility someone might read it forces me to look at it more closely and try to be at least coherent, which makes it more effective for me than journaling, as well as the fact that no one has to read it since I don’t like the sensation of holding someone hostage. I like that this place has all sorts so I don’t feel the need to be any particular sort myself, and it helps tremendously that it’s just thoughts I don’t have to make sound with which is where I’m most comfortable. I think any trepidation over meeting anyone or being more “real life” with anyone is just built in with me rather than a result of what I say here. I’m not at all sure I could ignore being visible and just be, which I would expect would be extra disappointing to anyone talking to me from here where I have SO many words. Obviously. 🙄😂
itsok · 31-35, F
I know there have been plenty of things, mostly about feelings I was having, but nothing in particular comes to mind now
@itsok I’m sure we all have at one point or another
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
That’s quite impressive@Jenny1234
Why regret a subject?

I regret being friends with backstabbers, and regret people's reactions, but not a certain subject
So you’ve never written something or expressed a thought or opinion you wish you hadn’t?@sstronaut
@Ghostinthemachine I regret the reaction it got, but I had no control over the reaction... if people want to purposely take it a negative way or direction, I have no control over it.
@sstronaut sometimes we won’t know what kind of reaction our words will get, and sometimes we know exactly how to trigger someone
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
Nothing so far.
Wait for it....wait for it....@ninalanyon
CBarson · 51-55
Right-wing loudmouthing, I regret every second I've wasted reading it and engaging with these fascists. The mute button has been in frequent use lately
Muting is a good tool to save yourself some regrets @CBarson
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
sexual proclivities when high
@atlantic59 I don’t think this place could turn you half gay, but maybe it’s helped discover a side of you that was always there
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@Ghostinthemachine I'm looking forward to:'going behind'
Good luck with that @atlantic59
Occasionally I’ll complain about an annoyance. When I read it back later, it strikes me as petty and trivial. I try to give myself a few moments before posting now and have deleted things.
@bijouxbroussard I think we can all learn, both online and real life, to take a moment, a breath, before writing and/or responding
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
That is really good.

@bijouxbroussard
SW-User
Nuffin

I know what to share and what not to share on the open posts 🤓
I’ll take that as a “no...for you that’s impossible” 😁@SW-User
@SW-User That puts you way ahead of many of us. 😅
SW-User
I’m no better than anyone ma’am 🌹

I’ve just learned by now who cares and who doesn’t @bijouxbroussard
SW-User
@SW-User your conscience is clear
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I hope she was at least a “she” and not a “he” 😕@DDonde
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I’m sorry this happened to you @DDonde
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
Letting people in when I shouldn’t have
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Ghostinthemachine I won’t make that mistake again though
@iamonfire696 lesson learned, hopefully
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Ghostinthemachine definitely learned, won’t be letting anyone in ever again
HotPizza71 · 51-55, M
Someone discussed about witnessing a guy jerking off near them on some public transport .I past off a flippant comment,about me thinking that only happened in porn films ,and then got a sad emoji from the person posting ,and berrated by another SW member,who then blocked me,even though I Said its wrong..So I regret going in with a flippant comment about that 😳..
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@HotPizza71 some people's insensitivities
@HotPizza71 I’ve been guilty of the “flippant comment” as well, and I didn’t mind being called out on it either

 
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