At what age did you stop giving a fu*k what people think about you?

By 35 I was well on my way to not giving a flying duck to what anyone else thought of me. Now at 36 I give zero fracks to what people think of me. I stopped wearing makeup and dressing in a provocative way. I haven’t been to the gym since July last year. I cut off all my frizzy long hair in November. And I did everything purely for myself not caring what anyone else thinks. I got tired of trying to impress people. So at what age did you start to not care what people thought about you?

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Cliffside · 31-35, M

I guess around now myself. I’ve always dressed how I want, but admittedly I care a lot about how people perceive me as a person, not how I look. I’m tall so that’s the first thing everyone always notices but I care about people thinking I’m a decent guy. So outside has never been something I care what people think. I’m in my thirty’s and have my lip pierced if that is any indicator. Inside is what matters, and I care a little too much what people think about me in that sense. We all have something ya know? Even if we don’t like to admit it