At what age did you stop giving a fu*k what people think about you?

By 35 I was well on my way to not giving a flying duck to what anyone else thought of me. Now at 36 I give zero fracks to what people think of me. I stopped wearing makeup and dressing in a provocative way. I haven’t been to the gym since July last year. I cut off all my frizzy long hair in November. And I did everything purely for myself not caring what anyone else thinks. I got tired of trying to impress people. So at what age did you start to not care what people thought about you?

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SW-User

I'm a vulnerable narcissist - have been since forever - and I can see no end in sight.

A vulnerable narcissist is a type of narcissist that tends to be highly self-conscious, insecure, and hypersensitive to rejection. They oscillate between feeling inferior and superior to others, and they become easily offended, anxious, or even hostile when they're not put on a pedestal.

DisarrayedNightshade · 36-40

@SW-User nice 👏

SW-User

@SW-User

Actually, not funny. This is why I'm a friggin' drunk.

DisarrayedNightshade · 36-40

@SW-User I apologize I thought you were trying to make a joke. Thanks for clarifying.

SW-User

@DisarrayedNightshade

No offense taken at all.