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Nina's Blog - Friday 24th July 2026

Friday 24th July 2026, 11:42

I'm sitting in the Tesla showroom at Newbridge, outside Edinburgh, while my car charges for the trip to South Shields.

I should make a few notes about my visit to Buckhaven. As I may have mentioned in an earlier post i was greeted when I arrived by Chloe who immediately offered me a cup of tea which I accepted of course. She had to phone the owner to confirm my details. She later complained about this and I agree that she should have been provided with the means to check people in on her own. Still that probably won't be a problem for her much longer because she says she has had enough and will leave on Monday because she feels underpaid (only 50 GBP per day and she has to pay for the room she occupies) and overworked. The place has fourteen rooms plus kitchen and shower rooms and toilets and she is currently housekeeper, cleaner, and receptionist.

Yesterday evening when she told me she was leaving she also said had some clothes that she needed to get rid of as she doesn't wear them and won't have space when she moves out. So now I have several items of styles that I would not have chosen for myself, I feel grateful to be encouraged out of my comfortable rut. Pictures later, must check the car.
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ninalanyon · 70-79, T
Friday 24th July 2026, 17:42

At the Washington south bound services topping up the car. Don't really need to as my accommodation is only ten miles away but I prefer to keep it as near fully charged as possible so that I can take unplanned side trips. Shouldn't need to though. I'm going to investigate the public transport weekly tickets to see if they make sense for exploring the area by Metro and bus.

A few minutes after leaving Adderstone several emergency vehicles, ambulances and fire control cars passed on their way north. Over the next hour more such vehicles including several police cars, one unmarked, and a fire engine passed heading the same way.

I wonder what was going on?
ninalanyon · 70-79, T
Friday 24th July 2026, 13:20

In the Naked Lunch, Haddington, having an excellent ham, raclette, and mushroom toasted baguette and a pot of tea.

Haddington is a pretty small town with a main street that wouldn't be out of place in the south of England.



ninalanyon · 70-79, T
Friday 24th July 2026, 16:09

Stopped at Adderstone to top up the battery and take a break for coffee and an Eyemouth tart in the Purdey Lodge café

ninalanyon · 70-79, T
Friday 24th July 2026, 13:49

Before I went to bed last night I tried on the clothes that Chloe gave me.

I'm wearing this top now but with the leopard print skirt.




I do like the leopard print top but I'll have to get some kind of strapless bra to go with it because without the straps to hold it up the bra I'm wearing has a tendency to gravitate downwards.


I'm not at all sure about the dress. Perhaps you have an opinion?

Boeing · 36-40
@ninalanyon there are some bras with silicon straps, they are still visible of course but not as much, and create more of a nude impression..just saying :)I'm sure you can find them pretty easily online too.

I get that, getting out of your comfort zone.

As about implants, that is radical, and permanent! think well before !

Have fun though, nice of her to gift you all these stuff:))
ninalanyon · 70-79, T
@Boeing I've been thinking of implants for a long time. Just haven't been able to bring myself to start the process. It's much harder for a transwoman to get them than a genetic woman. You for instance could simply make an appointment with a clinic. In the UK it's really difficult I would have to go through a long process of psychological evaluation and prove that I have been living as a woman for at least a year I think even if I am paying for the procedure myself. It's supposedly a bit easier in Norway but even then clinics expect a basic psychological check with an independent mental health practitioner.

Sexist in my opinion!
Boeing · 36-40
@ninalanyon okay yes from one point it is sexist I can see, yet from another point, it could be that humans are silly and some could act from impulse, but it is being treated as a grown up child in a way...
This is not the only area as societies we are having this type of approach to a situation. I can only guess in general that there could be 20 year olds that could go for the procedure to later realize this isn't it..
It is complicated.
But as a grown up person in your 70s it does sound weird yes. - I mean to not be given the choice immediately but to have to go through that process.

 
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