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Nina's Blog - Thursday 23rd July 2026

Thursday 23rd July 2026, 14:41

Today has been unexpectedly excellent. I started by looking for a café within walking distance to the west of the Railway Rooms but there was nothing on either Google Maps or Open Street Map between Buckhaven and Kirkcaldy. That's 8.5 km away and I didn't feel like that long a walk today. So I decided to drive.

Managed to find a parking space in a side street and took a circuitous route to the Roots and Seeds café via the seafront. Of course when I arrived at the café I discovered that Open Street Map is out of date and it no longer exists. So I searched for museums instead and saw that there was one dedicated to Adam Smith. When I got there all I could see was a blue plaque commemorating his time in his mother's house at that place. So far so disappointing. Except, not really. I use these goals as a way of encouraging myself to walk, so the fact that the supposed goal turns out to not exist simply gives me a reason to walk further.

So I walked on in the direction of the Kirkcaldy Art Gallery. It took me past the small bar that I visited last year but it was closed. More or less opposite is B'Arty's bar which has a sandwich board outside advertising that it serves coffee so I went in there. Unfortunately the coffee is very much an afterthought and cake scarcely even that. Still I got an acceptable Americano and a really quite pleasant cellophane wrapped fruit slice.

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ninalanyon · 70-79, T
Thursday 23rd July 2026, 15:06

I should back track a bit. One reason for saying the day was unexpectedly excellent is that before going out I made a skirt from a discarded black umbrella that I found in the street in Glasgow. I had bought an eyelet plier with a hundred eyelets a few weeks ago just because I thought it might be useful and I used that to create a waistband into which I threaded a length of 12 mm wide black elastic. The pliers are not the best and I'm not sure the eyelets will hold fast for long but it works and I'm wearing the skirt now



ninalanyon · 70-79, T
Thursday 23rd July 2026, 15:24

A couple of minutes after I sat down with my coffee in B'Arty's a man in a red t-shirt, camouflage trousers and cap came in and ordered a wheat beer.

He sat at a nearby table and started chatting to the woman running the place. He turned out to be a regular and when a topic arose that resonated with me I joined in. I didn't have to do a lot of talking as he seemed keen to tell his life story from joining the RAF at 17 to retiring through ill health at fifty via the 1984 miners strike (Buckhaven and all the surroundings were mining towns), playing guitar in several punk bands, marriage, divorce, researching local history, two daughters and last week a grandson, his younger daughter's intolerance and his elder daughter's Amazonian stature, Goth fashion and piercings.

He counts himself as not too badly off yet has epilepsy and sleep apnea. But when he relates the time of the miner's strike and the years of deprivation that the miners' families suffered afterwards it's easier to see how he as an RAF sergeant at the time was so much better off than many of the young men from the same area.

He got up at one point to ask my name and shake my hand, his is Rab.

We chatted about how foolish racism and other prejudices are. I related the positives that I had experienced as a crossdresser and transgender, he countered with some astonishing prejudice that he had experienced as a Scot in Essex. But tempered it in the end by saying that the reaction of other people had swiftly neutralised the aggressor.

After a while he got up to get another pint and asked if I'd like another coffee. I declined saying that I really should go and do the sight seeing that I came for.

We parted after shaking hands and hugging.

Here's the interior of the bar


 
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