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Nina's Blog - Wednesday 22nd July 2026

Wednesday 22nd July 2026, 15:11

Slept badly last night. Partly that's just how it is whenever I move from place to place. But also I think I might have been unconsciously bothered about the meet I was supposed to have at 12:00 today. Not the meet itself but the idea that I and the guy I was to meet might encounter the housekeeper on the way to my room. As the housekeeper and I are already on first name terms, her room is right next to mine, and she is a very chatty person meeting her seems almost inevitable.

How does one overcome this shyness? After all a time honoured function of hotels is to provide for Mr and Mrs Smith to have some time together away from their respective spouses so why does it bother me so? In fact it bothers me somewhat less than it bothers some of the men I meet. Even when meeting at a Days Inn or Travelodge some men try so hard to slink past reception inconspicuously as I lead them to my room that it must be obvious from a mile away what they are up to.

Anyway I needn't have worried because at 08:05 just as I was considering getting up my mobile pinged as Fabguys notified me of a message. It was from Alana in Newburgh apologizing and saying that she wouldn't be able to make it having slept so badly because of the heat. This is a transparent excuse, I can't believe it was much warmer in Newburgh than in Buckhaven overnight and it was not exactly tropical here, the daytime temperature only reached 21 C.

So I pottered around until it was nearly 10:00 and went out to walk to Leven. When I got back about half an hour ago I ran into the housekeeper, her friend's young daughter, the hotel handyman, and the cat, The housekeeper asked if it was me who had dropped a pair of knickers (a black M&S thong as it happens) outside her door and went on to ask if there was something wrong with the lock on my room door. She then asked the handyman to take a look.

So perhaps it wa for the best that Alana got cold feet,
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ninalanyon · 70-79, T
Wednesday 22nd July 2026, 15:38

On the way to Leven there is a charity shop that according to the one review on Google has an unusual way o working. The review claimed that a group of charities take it in turns to use the shop a week at a time.

But more importantly it said that the prices were better, that is lower, than high street charity shops.

It had a rail outside with label saying two pounds per item three for five pounds. So of course I had to check what there was. And I found a leopard print rain jacket that looks like it should fold up into a pocket:



The woman behind the counter remarked that it went well with my skirt.
Can’t you just text them your room number and have them meet you at your room? 🤔
ninalanyon · 70-79, T
@OlderSometimesWiser Sometimes that works. But it's remarkable how shy many men actually are. Men that when you look at them you would think are afraid of nothing just won't risk being challenged by hotel staff. This is especially true of younger men but surprisingly also of mature men who turn out to have been successful managers of substantial companies in their careers.

Also in chains like Travelodge, Premier Inn, and Wetherspoon, you need a keycard to access lifts and stairs so if I'm staying in one of those I have to go out to meet them. The same applied to the student flat I stayed in last week in Glasgow.

And lastly an important complication is that many of them are married and because they are taking time out of an otherwise normal day they can't travel far from home so there is always a risk that they might be recognized. For that reason they want to minimize the number of people and amount of time that they might be noticed.
ninalanyon · 70-79, T
Wednesday 22nd July 2026, 19:44

Seen on my wanderings around Buckhaven, St Andrew's church transported stone by stone to Buckhaven from St Andrews, now a small theatre.









 
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