🎶Ch..ch...changes...🎶
I have realized that I need to change as the little one is a sponge soaking up everything around her.
I find myself being negative too often.
I can't teach her to be kind and considerate while calling people idiots.
Probably no surprise to people I have known awhile, that I do,indeed,have a temper.
I use to say I had a long fuse, and I think that's true for most things, but impatience comes a bit quicker and I hear myself calling somebody an idiot or worse when they annoy me.
And, although, it might seem a mild thing it won't do as I'm trying to teach her that we have to put up with people that may annoy us little.
And teaching her the difference between abuse and annoyance.
You never have to put up with abuse, but if you fly off the handle every time someone annoys you ,then who really wants to associate with you?
I want her to make friends and keep them.
I don't want her to get the idea that if somebody annoys her,
if they don't answer her when she wants them too, doesn't always say yes to her ideas, then she can just drop them.
People need to talk things out before they decide whether a friendship should continue or not,unless an abusive situation.
We use to do that.
I think to keep friends you need patience, kindness,benefit of the doubt, and not assuming people are always doing annoying things just to be a bother.
I really believe "matching energies" is a sure way to become frustrated and unreasonable.
Shouldn't we be there when someone is out of energy to help them out and they help us when we're down and out?
Is it reasonable to think someone's going to have the exact same thoughts, ideas, and energy you do?
This isn't talking about abuse nor if a person never gets back to you, but if they don't, I guess you're not friends anymore?
And, although ,that might hurt I can't see how going on and on about is going to change it.
It's uncomfortable to be around people like that and I don't want her to become one of them.
So, I'm teaching her to go against the current flow in some areas.
I'm talking to myself, telling myself to let go of things, refrain from negativity,watch my mouth,and really try to be the kind of person I would want on my side.
I find myself being negative too often.
I can't teach her to be kind and considerate while calling people idiots.
Probably no surprise to people I have known awhile, that I do,indeed,have a temper.
I use to say I had a long fuse, and I think that's true for most things, but impatience comes a bit quicker and I hear myself calling somebody an idiot or worse when they annoy me.
And, although, it might seem a mild thing it won't do as I'm trying to teach her that we have to put up with people that may annoy us little.
And teaching her the difference between abuse and annoyance.
You never have to put up with abuse, but if you fly off the handle every time someone annoys you ,then who really wants to associate with you?
I want her to make friends and keep them.
I don't want her to get the idea that if somebody annoys her,
if they don't answer her when she wants them too, doesn't always say yes to her ideas, then she can just drop them.
People need to talk things out before they decide whether a friendship should continue or not,unless an abusive situation.
We use to do that.
I think to keep friends you need patience, kindness,benefit of the doubt, and not assuming people are always doing annoying things just to be a bother.
I really believe "matching energies" is a sure way to become frustrated and unreasonable.
Shouldn't we be there when someone is out of energy to help them out and they help us when we're down and out?
Is it reasonable to think someone's going to have the exact same thoughts, ideas, and energy you do?
This isn't talking about abuse nor if a person never gets back to you, but if they don't, I guess you're not friends anymore?
And, although ,that might hurt I can't see how going on and on about is going to change it.
It's uncomfortable to be around people like that and I don't want her to become one of them.
So, I'm teaching her to go against the current flow in some areas.
I'm talking to myself, telling myself to let go of things, refrain from negativity,watch my mouth,and really try to be the kind of person I would want on my side.
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