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I Hate Being Blocked For No Reason

So there's this person I was having a really good conversation with for exactly 1 and a half day on here xD
He was being too complimenting, so I soon told him that I don't want to get close to people online. Suddenly I'm prerogative and he blocked me xD How is that even a reason, it's called self protection when I checked it last. There are always some exceptions over time anyway, but you can't expect to be such an exception in a day and half can you...
What do you people think?

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SW-User

I mean it can be annoying when you're trying to converse with someone, but they don't even want to reveal basic information such as where they're from or whatever because of their silly paranoia. These people can be a pain to talk to and change. It's more worthwhile to find someone else who has already let go of these silly fears ages ago.

kimmy159 · F

@SW-User I soooo agree with you on that! Not to mention, they disappear without warnings and it seems like such a waste of time afterwards. Still, I'm stupid enough to give people chances either how haha xD

StrugglingSoul · M

There is no harm in being cautious

kimmy159 · F

@StrugglingSoul That's what I think too. You just can't form a real bond with someone you only just met. You might want to obtain it, but it just doesn't go that fast :/
- that's so many just's in one sentence :0 -

StrugglingSoul · M

@kimmy159 I agree with you

sometimeslonelytoo · 51-55, M

Blocking someone for not wanting to be close... Who knows. Maybe he doesn't want you to see the games he's playing elsewhere?

kimmy159 · F

@sometimeslonelytoo Exactly what I think too. If you can "like" a person after a day, I'm assuming you're mental or a player or a very nice combination of both xD haha

SW-User

Some people get their egos hurt too quickly and they have a knee jerk reaction to the block button.

kimmy159 · F

@SW-User And people like that, I feel like I'm better off without. Looking at it like that, I feel like he did some self-cleansing xD lmao

Flenflyys · 31-35, F

I’ve met some people on here who I’ve talked to for a while and eventually we decide to see what each other looks like. One guy in particular got actually aggressive accusing me of sending him a fake picture and went full blown nuts. So I don’t do that anymore lol.

KingLionHeart

@Flenflyys I'm still waiting for your selfie.. 😣

Flenflyys · 31-35, F

You’re too late 🙃

KingLionHeart

@Flenflyys 😂.. maybe next time

whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M

Why concern yourself with someone who blocks you? It probably means they feel inferior and dont want a person of your quality judging them. (As if you would) 😉

kimmy159 · F

@whowasthatmaskedman That is such a nice comment :0 I'm not sure if I totally deserve the honor, but I'd like to believe it's true xD

SweetMae · 70-79, F

I don't understand that either. You should be cautious.

kimmy159 · F

@SweetMae Thanks, I am ^^

SW-User

I get blocked all the time. You get used to it and then learn that it is probably for the better >.>
I later got unblocked because those people blocked so much that they hit the limit and unblocked my to start blocking others... interesting isn't it?

kimmy159 · F

@SW-User Wow ! That's like blocking to the next level 0.o I didn't know there was even such a thing here haha xD

SW-User

@kimmy159 exactly XD
You'll find out that the peeps here are cray, but some will like you for you :3

Just forget dem cray peeps tho v_v

Hikurai · 41-45, M

I have been in this position before, Kimmy. I react the same way. Online relationships still confuse me but to each their own.

Wait... did you say something about an exception?

kimmy159 · F

@Hikurai I already determined you to be a good person over the times we've talked on TWS ^^ You're definitely in the safe zone haha :D
It's just that people sometimes approach me and think they know me after a day (and half in this case) haha XD

Hikurai · 41-45, M

@kimmy159 I am glad you feel that way, Kimmy. I feel tha same about you 😊🤗. I have never had the problem of having a girl think they know me after a day. Maybe things here are different. Maybe it's because guys are different lol.

Itsmrsockmonkey · M

Very true

nate2244 · 41-45, M

Sounds a little strange that he blocked you after you guys only talked for a day.

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nate2244 · 41-45, M

@kimmy159 Some people don't realize that the person they are talking to might actually have a life,or stuff to do.

kimmy159 · F

@nate2244 True, it's not because I don't reply for an hour/ or even a day that it means I don't want to xD Some people don't get that and get angry or block me for it. Sometimes I feel like I'm dealing with adult childs on here for half of the people I meet xD

nate2244 · 41-45, M

@kimmy159😆 I swear it's like nursery school,and they don't realize that it's rude to do that to someone,and that you might hurt their feelings.

YouCanCallMeDan · 41-45, M

When you feel rejection it’s easy to hit the block button

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kimmy159 · F

@YouCanCallMeDan The real question here is, why do you get rejected ;p Lol I'm just messing, there's no need for you to actually answer that :D People just have their differences, rejection is bound to happen once in a while.

YouCanCallMeDan · 41-45, M

@kimmy159 it happens when I create expectations. It’s best not to expect anything

kimmy159 · F

@YouCanCallMeDan Sounds like me ~ I banned all sorts of expectations, which is exactly why I told him that I don't want to get close to people online, I told him that people are always disappointening when you expect them to be there for you as much as you are there for them. People don't owe eachother anything, hence they will never act in a way you'd like them to just because you want it to ^^ I learned that some time ago, and I'll stick with it haha :D This was probably the thing that pissed him off though xD

aaaabbbb

He must have been from another crazy place and trying flatter/butter you up.

You are absolutely right, people like that have an agenda to gain your trust to get something in the end....creeps.

firefall · 61-69, M

Sounds like he had a hidden agenda and when you said you're not going to get close, he realised he wasnt going to get what he wanted, and reacted childishly

JohnRing · 56-60, M

It is puzzling when someone seems to block because they like you too much as well.

sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M

He's moved onto a more ... 'impregnable ' type.

Yr better off.

kimmy159 · F

@sighmeupforthat Makes me assume the same. The thing is, people like that always say that people nowadays aren't genuine anymore, and definitely not online. I'm probably the most genuine person someone online can meet and then he blocks me for being honest xD

SW-User

Good grief🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️
You're certainly not going to miss anything there

Dadbod52 · 56-60, M

It’s a shock to get blocked. But it happens occasionally.

jackson55 · M

You didn't want to roll play, so he wasn't interested.

sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M

He wanted one thing.

Aww next thing he was going to send you a dick pic.

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