At what age should one stop using Snapchat for regular conversations?
Asking for an ex 🤦♀
It's always annoyed me that he uses Snapchat to talk to friends for some reason. He's almost 40. It just seems immature. He is immature though. Like seriously immature. And if this isn't the dickiest scenario of emojis or whatever they are when I'm asking him for sensitivity 😩 FML.....no.....FMBD (fuck my baby daddy) hahaha
Honestly I'm so scared to go on single. I became dependent on this guy and let it go on too long because I was pregnant or with baby and have been doing it mostly alone. Dad is really only good at paying for things when it comes to B and I it seems like sorry but seriously he can barely do dishes without being asked. I'm just terrified. My life is in shambles and I'm completely disabled with my phobias, cptsd, anxiety, fear. That stuff is stemming from an ex situation previous to baby daddy and has been about a little over 3 years now trying to cope with that. So yeah. I'm a wreck. I just want Bryan's dad to be a little more sensitive and understanding to why I get grumpy with him over the last year but instead he acts like I'm suuuuch a bitch to him for no reason. He gives me reasons. And I suck a little bit. I'm messed up. Wtf
So sorry you’re having to go through this. But sometimes we want things from people that they’re just not capable of giving. And no amount of wishful thinking is gonna change that. He’s a little boy in a man’s body.
I truly believe the love you have for your son will uncover just how strong and capable you are. It’ll be hard no doubt, likely one of the greatest challenges of your life, but you can do it!
Most people are shallow and don't improve without life literally forcing them to. You are in a very sticky situation being dependent on a child in a mans body. Reminds me of my parents and when i was dependent on their immature fools.
It might be worth seeing a therapist and explaining the discomfort you get. Personally, I only learned how to assert myself which was a difficult skill because my job was at stake at the time. I needed to set my goals... Set my plans... Discount anyone else from ever changing, I could only control my actions. But those are just my thoughts. Your situation sounds very unjust and hard. I believe there is hope, I believe it lays in supportive friends and... setting your boundaries... setting the consequences of those boundaries being broken. I think
SW-User
That is pretty immature. I’m sorry he can’t give you and his son more than this childishness.
@SW-User thank you. Maybe it was a mistake having a child with him, but I had my reasons at the time. I figure once the nasty part is over with and feelings settle down, it'll be fine and his ways won't bother me so much. He would never be bad to B. That I know.
