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I have to say something

I've been here for several years, and EP for years before that, and I have never posted anything for public viewing, but I feel that I have to now

In no culture I have ever heard of is any of what I am going to describe here right, not even close

I check my messages earlier this afternoon and see a new member who shares a few of my common interests, so I sent an introductory message and go back to playing yahtzee, a while later i check my messages and I have a response to the message I sent earlier

We talk for a bit and she is very respectful, using slr,or ma'am when needed and not being a mess

She found herself in a position where she needed help and I agreed to try to help her

She leaves the conversation without a word in the middle of the conversation and stays out of radio contact for over an hour (how rude is that?)

I ask what happened and I'm told she had to run somewhere for her kids or whatever, no apology, just assuming I am ok with all of this

We attempt to help her again, and are making progress, when she says I am too slow to help her and she is done and going to bed

I think before I respond, and when I do, im blocked!

For what?

Because you are not mature enough yet to have adult relationships that go both ways, give and take, etc?

You acted extremely juvenile and compounded it by blocking me, cutting off any chance I might have of finding out why you acted like you did, also making me feel like I was in the wrong here, when I clearly was not

Society keeps oking this kind of behavior, and pretty soon you could be shot for a perceived dirty look

You took the cowards way out, by eliminating any chance i had about being heard you really should be made to take a good, long look at yourself....I don't think you, or anyone else will like what they see....c'ya!
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Tahitiangrandma61-69, F
Okay hun well I think 馃 this is more than a bit of a overreaction completely. No one online owes anyone else anything. This isn't at all the same as real life not even slightly. Yes when I can and if I feel like it I might say oh gotta go been fun then maybe add well I have to go blah blah but in no way am I required and no one else is entitled to that. By your own logic we have a pm conversation going you asked me a question four days ago I answered four days ago still with no response. Well by what you say are you all those things you say about her? Or are you just busy not on here? I only bring it up to prove a point. I both don't care honestly and no that is not that big a deal. We will chat or not again period but living your life acting how you seem to be acting is a bit much bordering on stalker level honestly. You made a comment about her talking about going to do something or be with her kids? Really? Kids family etc is way more important than anything on some website that isn't real life. Now you can choose to be all hurt and offended Hun or you can get the point that this isn't that serious she didn't slight you quit being dramatic while complaining about hating people being dramatic and untrustworthy. I don't like being asked and don't explain myself to anyone just like her in all honesty and especially to someone online that you don't even honestly really know. Now this isn't in the same category as some rude weirdo doing weird rude stuff for no reason to you which happens alot. This was/is a woman who was online something happened with her kids she left because again that's both way more important and it's real life.
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Tahitiangrandma61-69, F
@Sleepingbeauty honestly what are you talking about and why are you even talking to me. Who are you and what are you talking about? Why are you melting in my presence I responded to the actual person it you please leave me alone
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Tahitiangrandma61-69, F
@Sleepingbeauty yes if course it is I don't see how you could think otherwise honestly what are you talking about please leave me alone now
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